So I'm recently single and I've come to meet this freakin weirdo. All I wanted a ciagarette (for my friend) and he started talking blah blah. I ended up giving him my number despite my lack of interest only bc I had my phone out and was trying to find my friend and bc he saw that he asked for my number so he could call it (which ps I HATE). Anway, he went on to start texting me that night after I left the club, then he was texting me first thing the next day and then day after and I only responded maybe once or twice to be polite. I never texted or called him first, I never returned his phone calls, haven't replied in last three, four days and this guy is still texting. I could go on more and tell you what a weirdo with the stupid sh!t he says but I don't think its necessary. Now do i keep ignoring him or ask him to leave me alone?
2007-07-27 06:31:44 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well as someone who is recently single myself ;) i would just tell him that your not interested and he should stop calling. there really is no way around it. thats what you want and thats what you should say. no need to be polite, he certainly isnt
ps: ill do what she said ^ for you
2007-07-27 06:35:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have had a stalker twice before. It started out innocently enough, talking to them in a club. Calling, showing up where ever I was. I didn't return calls either. I explain ever which way I could that I wasn't interested. It got completely out of control. I am not saying this guy is a stalker. But he has the potential and your uncomfortable. Tell him the way you feel. If that doesn't work report him. Laws have changed.
2007-07-27 06:41:52 · answer #2 · answered by Balou 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Text him that it was nice to meet him but you are bath with your husband or boyfriend. That should end it. If not, just ignore him and he will eventually quit. Don't threaten to call the cops or anything because if he is a weirdo, you don't want him freaking out either. And don't give out your phone number again unless you are sure who you are giving it to.
2007-07-27 06:39:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell Him You Got A Guy But Say We Can Hang Out You Can Easily Do Different Things Like I'm Not Really Ready For A Relation Ship It Would Tell Him Back Off
2007-07-27 06:36:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Your first big mistake was to give your number. Let him keep texting but the key here is to ignore, ignore and ignore. He will soon get tired. You could do what a friend of mine did. Change your phone number. It worked for her. He does not bother her no more.
Good luck to you.
2007-07-27 06:42:24 · answer #5 · answered by X-Woman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say just politely tell him you aren't interested I have been in that same situation! Usually the guy just takes the hint but once in a while they don't :-( So sometimes you do just gotta put yourself out there and tell them the truth. I am sooooooooo shy and always feel bad and like I am just being mean. But one time when I did just tell the guy the truth when he wouldn't leave me alone he was totally cool and respected me for it.
2007-07-27 06:47:50 · answer #6 · answered by Marissa Marie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-12 22:31:37 · answer #7 · answered by dunston 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you could ignore him but then he would still be texting you or he might get tired of you not answering so he'll stop but if that don't work then you need to be like look i'm not interested in you like that can u please leave me alone if that don't work you need to be like look shawty, I don't like yo ugly a$s so don't fu*king call or text me again forget that i ever existed!!!
2007-07-27 06:42:10 · answer #8 · answered by REPIN DA 804 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you block his incoming messages?
And next time, say no to giving out your phone number if you don't want to . Say "I don't know you well enough to give you my phone number." or do what a friend of mine did... have a fake phone number ready in your head at all times...
2007-07-27 06:38:35 · answer #9 · answered by aspicco 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him to leave you alone, say sorry I am not interested in you. ........Honestly is the best bet. Next time someone asks for your number and your not interested in him be honest and say no sorry. Best of Luck
2007-07-27 06:40:40 · answer #10 · answered by Tina the cat lover 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋