i am due to go on a blind date this sunday 28th and my date asked me if things go ok etc do i wish to stay for the night! Is she (a) nutcase, (b) serial killer, (c)lonely or (d) what do you think??
2007-07-27 06:12:09 · 17 answers · asked by skaska 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm going with (e) all of the above.
2007-07-27 06:15:26 · answer #1 · answered by Durga sings the classics 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She's not very wise. You should reply that you'll see how things go, and not do anything that seems wrong. She's probably been coached by friends and internet sites that this is the thing to do, and she's not a nutcase, serial killer or lonely.
2007-07-27 06:15:36 · answer #2 · answered by Jess 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think that she's probably just lonely or desperate -- not necessarily a "nutcase," lol. Tell her you want to see how things go first... that's a lot for her to ask before the date even starts. IF she does turn out to be crazy just have one of your friends call with an emergency... that's what I used to do with guys in bars before I met my bf!
Good luck!
2007-07-27 06:17:05 · answer #3 · answered by LLLphotogrphr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm assuming the date is with a woman. Excuse me if I'm wrong. I think she may be just putting it all out there. It's not unheard of to go home with someone after just one date, just a bit odd to ask about BEFORE the date! So, she's not like everybody else, perhaps that's a good thing. Have fun on the date and hopefully have a few laughs over this!
2007-07-27 06:21:38 · answer #4 · answered by alltiedup 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will only know how to answer that once you meet and spend some time with person. How much of a blind date is it? Have you two exchanged photos at all? talked on the phone? if neither and she's asking that - seems like the type that falls in love too fast, might be too aggressive and/or clingy. Wait for the data and decide.
2007-07-27 06:17:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A+B= Nutcase Serial Killer...don't stay the night but if she's a nutcase serial killer then i wouldn't blow her off either
2007-07-27 06:16:01 · answer #6 · answered by greenapple 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Asking to stay the night after one blind date? I'd say thats going too far, sounds a bit lonely to me.
2007-07-27 06:16:35 · answer #7 · answered by jon_1204 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you never no. Go and see how she look. Beside if she look back, you will run away in a second. So why be scary now. Go somewhere where there is a lot of people. Run if anything don't look good.
2007-07-27 06:19:07 · answer #8 · answered by ken401lam 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mmm maybe a bit desparate.. I'd say no to staying the night on any first date.
take your time and take things one date at a time
2007-07-27 06:16:25 · answer #9 · answered by papa_lightning 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's possibly a test of your intentions.
I'd politely decline - maybe next time.
2007-07-27 06:17:10 · answer #10 · answered by 'Dr Greene' 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Way to soon for the sleep over,.... be careful she could be all the above.
2007-07-27 06:15:46 · answer #11 · answered by kim t 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋