Why is it that the guys you want you can't have, or they don't want anything serious; and the guys you're not interested in don't seem to go away or get the hint? I guess I'm just having no luck in the dating field and was just wondering if anyone else has this problem.
2007-07-27 06:08:54 · 24 answers · asked by kelly825782003 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have the same problem. Bleh.
It sucks that the guy(s) we want already have something going or aren't interested in us, but the ones we wish would just go away, can't be gotten rid of.
2007-07-27 06:13:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
YUP I know what your saying. Statistics say that only 10% of the guys you like will like you back (or vise versa)...so our chances really arnt great. But then again that 10% will come around eventually! I know this has to be true because out of about the 10 guys I liked I only went out with 1 that I actually liked...it felt so good for the time. So just find atleast 10 people you like and one of them should like you :) HAHAH I understand the "cant take the hint" part. I could hold a sign in front of some people....plus a dictionary and they would think I was just joking or they wouldnt bother 2 look at the sign.
2007-07-27 13:17:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh Yes! I have had that problem all my life. You always want what you can't have. My mom told me, when I was in high school and crushing on this awesome guy, to chase him til he catches you. That never happened!
The guys that want you, and you don't want them, are interested because you are (to them) playing hard to get. I guess it's part of the alure.
I suppose if you ignored and turned down the guys that you like they may be more interested in you. I think I should try that on the next guy I like.
Good luck!
2007-07-27 13:14:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know wht you mean. and it seems that it always happens to you? well this is what i did. last year i had this massive crush on this kid named Armando. he wasn't really interested so i was kinda crushed. n then i found out that three of my guy friends liked me. i didnt like any of them back but i didnt say that. i said i dont really want a relationship right now so yeah. in the meantime i caught up with my school work, got better grades, n felt more confident. Then this year i met a great guy. i've never been so interested in someone as i have been in him. so basically you just have to wait. you will surely find someone and who knows maybe even sooner than you think;)
2007-07-27 13:15:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is the neverending problem... we want what we cant have and we dont want what we can have. I used to take it even a step further- I'd like a guy until he actually started liking me back, and once I found out he liked me too I'd be over him. Dont worry, when you meet the right person all that will change and it will just work. I promise.
2007-07-27 13:15:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had that problem, too. Eventually gave up even bothering with them. I have, at the moment, four guy friends and one online male friend who would like to have a relationship and I'm not into it yet. I took the time off to take care of me and it's the best thing I ever did.
2007-07-27 13:13:54 · answer #6 · answered by Jess 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is just the fact that everyone wants what they don't have like "the grass is always greener on the other side of the fence.". And until people are mature enough to get over that, you will always have to face that problem. Your definately not the only person that has that problem, I think everyone does at some point.
2007-07-27 13:12:10 · answer #7 · answered by Jezurae Williams 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem. Have no idea why things are the way they are. I had one guy that was supposedly interested in me. I think he was just trying to get laid. We had nothing in common, wanted very different things in life and I was just not attracted to him at all. Finally he realized he was not going to get what he wanted and left me alone.
2007-07-27 13:39:16 · answer #8 · answered by Jen_n_TX 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its never the right time, place, or situation for that perfect person right
well its usually just that you have not had the Time to realize that person isn't perfect....
so you build up what could have been in your head and feel that something special got away
2007-07-27 13:13:53 · answer #9 · answered by dick_ache 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always! The guys feel the same way about us. If things don't fall into place it probably isn't meant to be. Keep looking because there's someone out there for everybody.
2007-07-27 13:13:01 · answer #10 · answered by Sunshine! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋