she treats him like crap but he wont leave her and he has already said that he likes me and would want to date me if he didnt have a girl and i really like him a lot and he is my bestfriend what should i do i dont want to see him keep getting hurt by her
2007-07-27 06:04:27 · 27 answers · asked by timken_2010 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Find a guy that DOESN'T have a girlfriend. Doesn't matter how she treats him, it's not right to be with someone who is with someone else.
If he really likes you and is tired of her ways he'll leave her and then you two can see what blossoms between you.
Until then, I'd stay away.
2007-07-27 06:09:06 · answer #1 · answered by PrettyProblem 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So your very eager to be the back burner not even a second choice new girl because he refuses to leave a crappy relationship for one with you? If he wont leave a crappy relationship ship for you what would make you think you could ever stand a chance against some real competition? I know this sounds harsh but its the truth sweety if you want to be a friend be a friend and offer support stop being an opportunist looking out for your own selfishness. There is a reason he is staying even if he isn't expressing that reason to you. And just because someone would date you doesn't mean that he would commit to you like he is committed to who is is with now remember that, and watch your heart.
2007-07-27 06:14:12 · answer #2 · answered by Lylddlebit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do anything. If you end up breaking them up or something he'll blame you and then ur chance is blown and he'll mad at you. Don't try to talk to him about it because he'll think you're a jealous freak. Just let it be, they'll break up eventually then when he's heart broken go and confort him and make him have a really good time like chear him up, he'll soon fall in love with you again and then u can get him. If the plan doesnt work don't worry about it, there are plenty of fish in the sea. But remember that its dangerous to go out with ur best friend, if it doesnt turn out good u might loose a friend.
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2016-12-11 03:32:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
U need to tell him that u can treat him 10 times better then she ever would and u don't want him to get hurt by her evil ways anymore.. and if he still wants to stay w/ her let him stay at that poin t u did all u can do which was tell him how u feel about teh situation....he will soon learn that his choice of sayin with her was not the route he should have took... but he has to find this out by himself..
2007-07-27 06:11:35 · answer #5 · answered by Shanterra Y 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't do anything. If you do care about him so much, then you need to respect his choice to be with her. You may only see or hear the negative things about her, not the good. There is something he clearly sees in her, you need to respect that. By feeling more for him like this, you are disrespecting her and him if you act on your feelings. The best thing you can do is be a real friend, just be there for him even if she is treating him like crap, he still chose to be with her, respect it. You shouldn't be talking about if he'd date you or not, he is with her and that is empty compliments to you and disrespectful to you because it is leading you on. Maybe if he wasn't talking to you like that, she wouldn't treat him like crap.
2007-07-27 06:10:49 · answer #6 · answered by Maalru3 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
STAY AWAY. Don't get in the middle of it, plus make him grow some balls and be man enough to make the decision to leave her and know whats right for him. Plus, he obviously is kind of a wuss if he can't take care of things himself. Find a real man!
2007-07-27 06:08:32 · answer #7 · answered by salpy_talian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find out why he doesnt want to break up with her. i mean if he really likes u like u said he does then he would have dumped her a while back. the only thing u can do is wait. i know its hard but the outcome is best that way.
2007-07-27 06:07:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would leave this one alone. I think getting involved with him and his relationship woes is asking for trouble. It sounds like he is stringing you along so if it doesn't work out with the current girlfriend, he can go to you as his second choice. That just doesn't sit right with me.
2007-07-27 06:11:39 · answer #9 · answered by T T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd tell his girlfriend that I like him (and he likes you) in her face. If she loves him, she'd care more and being less biot..chy. If he really loves her, he wouldn't have told you that he'd date you. She doesn't care, he might want out, perfect! If you really love him and care, go for it. If they can't stand any challenge, they don't mean to be together. IF you can't break them up, it is a reality check. I doubt you'd lose him as a friend afterward. He might still need a backup.
2007-07-27 06:13:35 · answer #10 · answered by Carborane 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋