Don't get me wrong, I don't have much against big girls.
One of my friends called me to organize a double date. The other girls I've called can't make it. I've somewhat decided to ask this one, rather bigger girl. But you see, this date is laser tag, where you've got to run around and hide and stuff. would a big girl not have as much fun doing those types of things, or would she be fine? Big girl's answers are much appreciated.
2007-07-27 05:47:26 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't assume, ask her and let her decide for herself.
2007-07-27 05:50:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
She will be fine. Just because she's a little bigger than your "average" girl doesn't mean she can't run around and have fun. I've known people that most would call overweight, and they could keep up with almost anyone. If you like her, ask her out. Unless you are afraid of what your friends might think. If that is the case, you are being shallow and the "big" girl is too good for you.
2007-07-27 05:52:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Call her and ask her if she has ever played laser tag, and if she likes it. Tell her you have a double date for laser tag and would she like to go!
Size doesnt matter- it is the qualities and her personality that counts! But if you tell her the plans- SHE can decide if she would have fun or not.
2007-07-27 06:01:20 · answer #3 · answered by tpettee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not assume anything because she is a big girl. that mean that the target for the laser to hit will be a lot smaller now, and she is going to beat at laser tag. just because you say she is big does not mean anything. stop being ignorant and take her out for a good time, let her decide if she wants to participate or not. bd
2007-07-27 05:55:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont ever underestimate a big girl. lol She'll probably whoop on all yo asses. Ive seen some majorly large women run fast and beat a ***** down. I wouldnt even let her weight be an issue. If shes huffin and puffin then take a break wit her. Laser Tag rules-plus u get to see her laffy taffy when she stops runnin ;)
haha have fun.
2007-07-27 05:50:57 · answer #5 · answered by Leen B 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Big does not always equal unathletic. And nothing ensures a plus-size girl will have a miserable time more than patronizing her because of her size. If you want to go with her, ask her and don't give the choice of activity a second thought.
2007-07-27 05:52:25 · answer #6 · answered by MM 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think she will be fine, but really it depends on how big she is. If she is really big, she might have trouble fitting into the vest they use at lasertag, but other than that, she will have a great time. If you asked her, AND told her it was lasertag, then she is aware of what is involved and can refuse....but if she accepted, I am sure she will have fun and be able to run and hide. Have fun on your date!
2007-07-27 05:51:08 · answer #7 · answered by ultra _ girl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
most bigger women are healthy and fine and active. Some like say if they have a thyroid problem could be exteremly fatigued all the time because of their hormone imbalance.
I would suggest letting her know what the plans are and asking her if she wants to go. *dont make any comments like, "i wasnt sure if you could do it or not* lol, just casually let her know whats going on.
2007-07-27 05:51:13 · answer #8 · answered by SueWithTwo 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ha Ha Ha..How Cute..You Tried To Make It Sound As Sensitive As Possible..Just Ask Her..They Are Human Just Like You And Me..
2007-07-27 05:50:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
dude, if you know she is a fun person, then yes, ask her. it completely dpends on personality. Laser Tag is an awesomely fun game for anyone. Big or small..
I say go for it!
2007-07-27 05:51:25 · answer #10 · answered by jayrose090 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would she mind? Did you ever think that maybe she exercises every day? It's a proven fact that bigger people tend to exercise and be healthier then people with smaller figures. Anyways, I don't see why not.
2007-07-27 05:51:12 · answer #11 · answered by Greetings! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋