my ex-girlfriend recently broke up with me after 3 months of dating b/c she felt like were better off as best friends. but she still calls me late at night to talk and occasionally will send me a text message saying "goodnight xoxoxo". Now im sure shes not texting all of her guy friends at night just to say goodnight to the. do you think she may have some close feelings for me still and is this a hint that in the future she might want to get back together?
2007-07-27 04:44:58 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she probably misses u and regrets breaking it off. let her know u feel as if she is giving u mixed signals and that u need to know where the two of u stand. if u still have feeligs for her more tha a friend let her know, this might make it easier for er to express herself.
if she still stands her ground claiming u two are better off as friends let er know at this time it is too much for u to handle and that isnt going to happen. break off the communication and foret about her. unless u can handle being her friend (and er lil mind games ) then continue communicating with her and whatever.
my opinion is she is probably missing the time u two spent togethr and wants u to be friends but also have that intimate connection.
2007-07-27 04:51:18 · answer #1 · answered by MoMo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you're having a little trouble getting your feelings to stay down, and to let you have some time before you can just see her as a friend.
It's not fair to keep stringing you along and playing with your emotions. Maybe she doesn't realize what she's doing, but that's certainly what she's doing.
It usually takes some time apart, no social interactions at all, before the heart readjust to the other not being there. I'm not saying to be rude and not speak if you happen to bump into her, but you should make an effort not to initiate contact with her at least until your feelings have died down some.
2007-07-27 04:53:04 · answer #2 · answered by purplex62 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is probably confused too. Maybe she felt the relationship was going too fast and this is her way of slowing down a bit. She probably would get back together with you a little later.(if you treat her with respect and care for her feelings she will want you back.)
2007-07-27 04:54:39 · answer #3 · answered by .... 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
o.k the only way that you'll ever know that if she still likes you or if you guyswill ever get back together again is if you simply sit down with her have a slow conversation and basically ask her whats going on cause your a bit confused about such and such and tell her how you feel.I'm telling you she'll clear the air a bit,cheerz
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2007-07-27 04:53:34 · answer #4 · answered by luyanda d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know. I think you should ask her, and tell her the vibe you are getting from her and if it the message she means to send. If not I would politely ask her to stop. Tell her if she doesn't want to be together then to let you move on.
2007-07-27 04:48:34 · answer #5 · answered by Afisha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's interested in you as a friend...
xo's are a common, endearing salutation which friends (girls) use... i do as well, and i'm probably a lot older than her.
sometimes it's more fulfilling to have a "friend" in another person than to date or have them for a girlfriend when it's not what they want.
take care of YOU... and meanwhile, ask someone else out!! there are plenty of "fish" in the sea!
2007-07-27 04:49:30 · answer #6 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you had a really long relationship she might be regreting breaking up with you and might wanna still be close.
2007-07-27 04:49:06 · answer #7 · answered by bubbly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋