How does being a Pagan affect their daily routine?

Question

I am dating a Pagan and I asked about it and he said he didn't want to talk about it. I suspect he doesn't know much about it himself. I googled it and everything that came up was very very wordy and referred a lot to the olden days. So in these modern times, is it ceremonial just on Sundays, or does it affect the daily routine? Do they eat certain things and have certain rituals?

Dear Kallan, I only looked at the sites on the first page that appeared on my screen when I googled, because this relationship is going very fast and I didn't have time to keep reading till I found something that related to everyday life in modern times. He won't let me see his room and I was worried he might have something spooky in there.

Answer 1

ROTFL
Ok Sundays is a Christian thing sorry. I do attend a UU church on Sundays because Sun is traditional thought.
Some Pagans are vegetarian but its not required.
We do celebrate "olden holidays" and some covens do magic work during full moons, but also not required.
It can effect your daily routine if you let it. It's just a part of my life. Doesn't really effect it as in get in the way. I do little things. I always keep a bowl of something alive with the mark of the Goddess. I always stop and appreciate an amazing sunset or a storm. I meditate in circle before bed. But I get up with my kids, I got to the pool, I run errands my daughter is in ballet, I'm in school. You wouldn't know I'm Pagan unless you ask me.
He might not want to talk about it because we get a lot of ridicule for what we believe and by nature are secretive. He might not trust you enough to tell you yet. You don't sound too open about it.

Answer 2

There are many types of Pagans. I suppose for some of them being Pagan may have an effect on daily routines. But I'm pretty sure most of us get up, go to work or school, eat and drink and play like everyone else. The whole sunday thing is christian, so no, sunday is just another day, unless you're a football fan. There are no dietary restrictions and no daily requirements that I'm aware of. Being a Pagan is a pretty laid-back thing.

Answer 3

Paganism is a very large umbrella for those who follow an earth-based spiritual path. Ask any three pagans a question and you're going to get four different answers.
For me, paganism is a way of life. It isn't something I put on like clothing and take off after I'm through with a ritual.
It's part of my everyday life.
Many pagans follow the changing of the seasons, honor the full and new moons, and things like that.
Different beliefs have different rituals for a variety of things.
I find it hard to believe that every site you searched had wordy references to the "olden days". There are plenty of good informational sites about paganism.
Some pagans are vegan, some are ominvores.. we're human beings, just like you.

Answer 4

Depends on the Pagan. For some folks, the only time you'd tell is if you overhear them making plans for their holidays. Others, you can't miss the 4-inch-diameter pentacle necklace and 15-million Pagan bumper stickers on their cars. ::shrugs::

Some folks do have daily prayers or observances, some folks have less frequent routines, and still others only do things when they feel moved to do so.

Most of the Pagan religions do have certain rituals at certain times, some of them are variations on a theme, others can vary widely.

Food choices also vary - some folks view their religion as a reason to be vegetarian/vegan, others see their religion as a reason to be omnivorous. ::shrugs:: Depends. Either way, at most rites, you're going to typically see "healthier" food - a lot of Pagans go out of their way to get fresh fruit/veggies at their ceremonies. (Though, on the flip side, I have heard of folks using cupcakes and soda, so that's far from mandatory.)

Answer 5

You'd never be able to tell that some people are pagan at all. I just have certain things I like to do on the pagan holidays. I also like to commune with nature, by lifting my face to the wind, and appreciating the beauty of nature.

He may not want to talk about it because it's extremely personal and most people don't understand. To explain it can sound weird to someone who isn't used to the concepts.

Answer 6

It's pretty individualistic, but you can probably count on a reverance for nature. He may be vegetarian, or he may prefer to hunt his own food when possible. Or he may not care, lol.

He may honor his ancestors and he may have a collection of things that he uses in ritual. (Please don't touch his ritual tools or altar unlessyou ask and me says yes!)

He may celebrate on the full moons, or on the eight Wiccan festivals. And he probably can't tell you much, if he's initiated in a mystery religion, such as Wicca.

Answer 7

there are many different pagan paths that he may be following, so it really depends. he may not want to talk about it for fear of your reaction. not that he does anything creepy or evil, just different. he may practice on his own, or with a group of peers. try to find out which path he walks, and maybe make or buy a symbol of his faith to give him as a gift to show him you're interested and open minded about his beliefs. good luck!

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Answer 9

it doesn't really make a difference in any thing,other pagans iy doesn't rally afect but others it does and teh go to pagan church....or get togher w/ other pagans...

Answer 10

I agree with Daughter of Isis. Thumbs up!!


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