My girlfriend told me while we were having sex that she wanted to have a threesome (with us and another girl). this has come up before and i'd love it just as much, but at the same time, i'm really scared that she'd like it too much and if something like that came up while i wasn't around, she might go and do it without me. She swears that would never happen, she wants to do it with me there. I'm kind of torn with what to do, as i know how unbelievably fun it would be to do one time with her.
2007-07-27 03:49:04 · 11 answers · asked by Enron 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dude, you've hit the jackpot, a girl who wants another girl there with you....GO FOR IT!!!!!
2007-07-27 03:52:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Hey sweetie, if you're actually gonna go thru with this then I would recommend finding a girl who YOU choose, and who you know isn't seriously gay at all.. b/c this is your girls way of slowly breaking it to you and to herself that she's really into girls.. and if she's already at this point then once she gets her first taste of the girl on girl thing she's gonna be hooked.. not to mention, girls are much more emotional than guys are so its easy for two girls to catch feelings for each other, especially after an intimate moment like this. I'd be really careful with this if you wanna keep your girl and find a girl that you guys won't have to come in contact with again.. So unless your gf and this girl are both honestly just straight and experimental then I fear that you're gonna get pushed to the backburner burning the threesome and worse - after. Believe me, its a hot time, but that won't measure up to what you could and may lose.
2007-07-27 12:01:48 · answer #2 · answered by lyricaleyes5 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Threesomes can lead to a lot of complications. You need to know what is involved as it can be an emotional experience as well as a physical one. A lot of trust is required ...
it could make or break your relationship ... are you prepared to take the chance?
Have a look at the links below.
2007-07-27 11:00:52 · answer #3 · answered by Christopher P 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you're interested and ask her to tell you all about the fantasy she has and what will happen with the 3 of you together.
Just sit back and let her bring it all out (don't stop her and if she pauses tell her to keep going) and see how much you are in the picture she has.
If it's lots - you have hit the jackpot. If it's not better be concerned...
2007-07-27 13:15:43 · answer #4 · answered by Zaferus 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah she says that now but in the end she may become jealous of a situtation or you might want to do it more or she will anytime you bring a 3rd party into the picture it may feel exciting to do but in the end its like "friends with benefits" usually one person or the other gets too emotional and wigs out on the other....your choice gl
2007-07-27 11:01:13 · answer #5 · answered by GA 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's bi and wants to be with another woman with your blessing! She wants you to referee the mattress Olympics!
You might get a little action out of the deal, but she's going to have it built up so much for this chick that I'm thinking you'll end up on the bench pleasuring yourself!
2007-07-27 10:52:53 · answer #6 · answered by i know it all! 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lets see,, ask yourself this question.. Are you GAY??? It's a no brainer.... Just tell her that it has to be mutually agreed to as far as who this other girl will be... If she has someone in mind, then irregardless of what you say, she'll end up having sex with her anyways, so you might as well enjoy yourself while you can...
2007-07-27 11:07:23 · answer #7 · answered by tracy s 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First-off, it's different sex, not better sex. She's bi, not gay.
Second, unless she was a virgin when you met, someone else has knocked her socks off before you and she is still with you and not them.
So no worries. Again, it's different sex, not better sex.
2007-07-27 16:02:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you try it and don't like it, you shouldn't have to do it again. It's at least worth one try.
2007-07-27 10:52:56 · answer #9 · answered by Somethingtotry 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it! You won't believe what a turn on those fantasies will be later on!!!
2007-07-27 11:16:05 · answer #10 · answered by dinny's engaged!! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋