Why do women lie?

Question

I'm NOT in the game anymore, so this is just a general question. Women say obviously PC things like, "I like a man with a good personality." Then they go googly eyed over some good looking guy. They say the ridiculous, "I want a man who respects me." Then they go out with some guy who openly treats them like trash. Or they might say, "Where are all the good men?" and then go out with the first guy with a dumb pick up line. Even when they become so desparate that they get into a relationship with a good personality who repects them and is good, they run off with the first dumb looking guy with muscles. Why do they do that? Why don't they just come out and say, "I want to have a guy who looks good, acts bad, and can beat my old boyfriend up." Why do they fall for such idiotic stuff that guys do to get them in bed and then cry about how bad men are?

Answer 1

we do that cause......they look hot to us and usually if a friend wants them than we have to have them first and then pass them on....its hard to say cause we of women are all different so we lie bout different things....just get it through ur head.U WILL NEVER UNDERSTAND WOMEN. got that...okay now repeat untill u get it ...
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Answer 2

Probably the same reason men lie. They want trophy girlfriends or wives. If they're pretty and have a hot body, then "oh well" with the rest of the package.

My new husband is older, balding, quick tempered, a tad overweight, but shows me the utmost respect. He's very protective of me, not in the overbearing way, but in the "do not disrespect her" way. He does anything ask him and things I don't ask.

I'm an older woman, bleached hair, overweight, bitchy, missing teeth, but he loves me for who I am. I'm as loving to him. I never looked for a good looking man, with money and muscles, mostly because those type of men to me, are arrogant and full of themselves. I'm not a gold digger. I like to be pampered, protected, and taken care of, but not at the expense of being beaten or mistreated.

Don't get me wrong...I see nothing wrong with taking care of yourself...it's the attitude that most men have that annoys me.
And I'm sure the same thing is said about women.

A lot of women come out of abusive relationships and wind up back in them (with different men) because of self esteem issues. They seem to think that's the only kind of man they deserve or can find. And some men are the same way.

If you guys didn't try to front to us all the time by telling us what you know we want to hear... then maybe you would find the TRUE love you seek.

In answer to your question...men and women BOTH lie!

Answer 3

Because women would like to believe any man interested in them has good intentions. I guess we see the good in men before we see the bad. An you can't help attraction, your hormones chose who they chose. Believe me if we could make up the perfect man we would. It's hard to find a guy with a good personality and is good looking. They usually have one or the other. When women get older though, they tend to look more for the personality than the looks. Because believe me the "bad a**" guy is not going to be able to support the family. He needs to have a majority of the "good guy" traits to actually succeed in life.

Stop looking and the right woman will fall into your lap one day. You just have to be able to recognize that she is the right woman. And believe me just as woman cannot recognize it, neither do men.

Answer 4

This is because women are very emotional people. And sadly most of the stupid jerks that you are talking about have made it an art to know exactly what to say and how to act to fool a woman into thanking they are someone that they are not. And once the girl falls for them they then start acting like the jerks they really are. And for women once they have fallen it's hard to get out. Because most of us always see the good in people and we are secretly hoping that the jerk will magically turn back into the nice guy he was in the beginning. See for girls the heart wants what the heart wants. And once we fall for a guy its really hard to make out head decided that we are better off without then even if out heart says otherwise. I know this probably doesn't make since to most guys but girls are just emotional complicated people. Sorry for your luck.

Answer 5

i think your a sexist jackass
you cant label all women under that, dumbshit
thats like me saying all men are stupid fat & lazy (not true at all, see my point?)
women want men to respect them & treat them good & all of that stuff you said we say, some just make mistakes & get caught up w/ people they shouldnt
just because women in your past have left you for better looking guys or stronger guys, theres probably a deeper reason too, honey
so stop labeling all women under a sexist & unfair label or youre not goin to be findin another one

Answer 6

Do you seriously believe that "ALL" women want a guy like that?! You are very incorrect. I, for one, can honestly say that guys like that are a HUGE turn-off. I want a real man, someone who can take care of himself and is not afraid of responsibility. Someone who is kind to other people, and respects everyone.

Answer 7

my guess is that is how the game is played guys know what girls what so they do it till they get what they want...thats why you gotta find the right guy b4 you just jump in bed w/ him not every guy is a jerk like tho
in the end you win some you lose some thats how ya learn right?

Answer 8

Men cannot laways handle the truth and often over react to things so we tey to keep the peace

Answer 9

Forget this question. You are asking to understand women. The greatest minds in the history of the world have failed. Einstein divorced twice.

Answer 10

They're women, they are made to ruin a guy's life.

once upon a time a guy lived alone in the world with animals, fruits... ... ... his name was Adam. one day he asked God to give him a partner that will do things he doesn't want. God says "ok, but that will cost you your spine", and the guy says "nooo, I need my spine, it's too expensive, i can give you my rib.", and God says "ok. I can give you a phisically similar creature. and if you're a man, that creature will be a woman. it will cook for you, clean for you, it will be your life partner and do some other little things for you.". Adam says "ok, give me that", but God warns him "now, I told you what a women will do FOR you, but I haven't told you what a woman will do TO you", and Adam was already a little nervous, and he answers to God "it doesn't matter!! just give me the woman". and God takes Adams rib and creates a woman near him. than Adam thanks God "God, thank you for giving me this beautiful life partner". God didn't answer. in the beginning a woman was good for Adam, she loved him, respected him and all that stuff... but a few weeks later woman got her menstruation, and she was mean to Adam, then a PMS came. Woman was too evil for Adam, and Adam tolerated that period somehow... after a month, the same story came. and a month later and later, and Adam couldn't tolerate that anymore. woman saw that he has a difficult time, with her during menstruation and PMS, so to calm Adam down, she started lying to Adam in the next few months. but Adam finds out that she's lying, and he was desperate, so Adam climbs a hill and calls God, God didn't answer, so Adam continued calling God, and finally God asked him what he wants. Adam told God "God! why is this woman so... so... ... ...bad???" and God answers him "You wanted cheaper... I gave you cheaper", Adam answers "I'll give you my spine!!", but God rejects him "Sorry, too late".

That's the one mistake ALL men pay for.


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