Hi, okay so ive been hooking up w this guy for about a month and a half now. We used to date for a little bit, then broke up, then decided to just hook up for a little bit. We always use a condom. BUt this past weekend one of the times we didnt, but he pulled out. The past couple of days i have been having really bad pains in my lower section/pelvic area/uterus area. I dont no what it is?? or could be. I dont have an std, and i dont think he does. Ive only been w him and from what i no hes only been w me. Also i think now he is avoiding me and is done?? I txted him tues. night and asked if he wanted to come over the next day and he never responded and now he is out of town for a week and a half. Should i txt him and ask if he has something???????? i dont no what to do please help. thankyou!!
Ps. Im 20 and so is he. so....................
2007-07-27 03:44:40 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I woukd test to see if u r pregent 1st of and if the test reads no and ur still having pains then i would go see ur doctor. 2nd i think u r right he is avoiding u (he's probably afrid that he got u pregeant..) I think u should leave him be 4 now until he comes bac then call him or txt him.... Good luck!
2007-07-27 03:55:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, don't ask him. If he has something, he will be embarassed and if he doesn't he will be hurt that you don't trust him. Second, go get tested. You most likely do not have anything at all, but it is heavy on your mind, and this is the best way to get it off your mind. Most likely you have strained a muscle and it could be coincidental. Lastly, it make be over, for whatever reason, and it may not. All you can do is wait and be friendly without being clingy. Being clingy and chasing him is the worse thing you can do. Cultivate the friendship, and maybe the love will come back. Luck
2007-07-27 10:49:23 · answer #2 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should get checked out still. Even if you know that you don't have an STD, you don't know for sure that he doesn't have an STD. There's no harm in making sure your healthy. After that, get a pregnancy test. Not using a condom increases your chances of getting pregnant.
2007-07-27 11:06:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you might want to go get checked out, to make sure that you don't have an std, and to see if you're just sore or if it's something else. take a pregnancy test too, just to make sure. i wouldn't text him to ask if he had something. that's the kind of thing you should call him to talk about.
2007-07-27 10:51:10 · answer #4 · answered by nextgreatsuperhero 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even if you ask him, you may not get an honest answer. Your best bet is to go to the doctor for testing.
2007-07-27 10:48:56 · answer #5 · answered by burghgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you do not know what is going on here get your butt to a doctor and get some test run and next time be more careful!!!!
2007-07-27 10:49:58 · answer #6 · answered by kim t 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly, just go get an std test... ask them for all sorts of test... hiv, herpes, and so forth... you actually have to ask them to test for the hiv and herpes..... the others they'll normally test for... so ask for all for all of them... make sure for yourself... if you find you don't have any of it.. then you might need to go to your obgyn and tell them you've been feeling pelvic pains and such... might be something more serious as well...
2007-07-27 10:52:09 · answer #7 · answered by Kevin c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sry.......... I can't help you there partner.
2007-07-27 10:48:56 · answer #8 · answered by unspoken 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋