2007-07-27 03:29:06 · 19 answers · asked by jamee t 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i really want 2 show her
2007-07-27 03:29:52 · update #1
you cant - it can only be built up over time.
You shouldnt have cheated you idiot
2007-07-27 03:31:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Right, for a start off, you can't just GET a woman to trust you, especially if she knows of your reputation anyway. Trust has to be earned. Even If she has not heard about your past, be honest, (before the gossip mongers get to her). Sit her down and tell her that in the past you had a bit of a reputation for not being faithful to your partner, but, as you said, that is the past. Tell her to give you a chance to prove to her that you have changed and she is the only woman for you. Tell her that you love her and you wouldn't dream of jeaopardising a wonderful thing by cheating.
2007-07-27 03:59:38 · answer #2 · answered by mel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey accident doeshappen no one perpecf. Tell your girl about your past so she would know what you use to do and why you does it and she might understand rather that it happen and she leaving you cause once you tell her and she really love you she will help you tru it and she might had a bad past as well whereby she did the same thing or even worst. But yall two need to sit down and talk before yall get serious in this relationship
2007-07-27 03:40:29 · answer #3 · answered by Sweetsexy D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if she know's you have cheated in the past but i would come clean to her before someone else tell her that you are known on cheating. Tell her that I like you a lot and I want to come clean and do right by you and I DON'T WANT TO CHEAT ANY MORE, Trust comes from you You can't "get" her to trust you you have to win her trust. And she has to trust in your herself. So don't screw up an cheat on her. Treat her like a queen.
2007-07-27 04:00:32 · answer #4 · answered by jennajade 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHY SHOULD SHE TRUST YOU?? Just so you can later cheat on her and make her heart break in a million places. NO! The thing for you to do is tell her the whole truth and then go get counciling for your own issues! Because if you never address them then they are going to keep reappearing in your life forever. Sorry this is not what you wanted to hear but it is the reality you need!
2007-07-27 03:36:53 · answer #5 · answered by onelittleangelsittingonmyknee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not so much what you say or do but what you actually believe. Sincerity is an unconscious thing that few of us have little control over. If she's attracted to you, your past will become less and less important than the fact that she's attracted to you. Find ways to remind her of this. Don't accept anyone treating you badly simply because of your past choices.
2007-07-27 03:36:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
only time will tell.
one thing you can do is be totally open about your cell phone and email.
tell her your password, let her look over your shoulder. let her pick up your cell phone when it rings and she can see who it is or even answer. just be real. over time she will learn. try to make sure you don't have 'gaps' of time when you are unaccounted-for. call her to let her know where you are and tell the truth. you can't get in trouble by telling the truth. over time she will know you are for real. you could also explain to her why you cheated in the past and what has changed inside you to change your behavior. why this is different. that would also help.
2007-07-27 03:32:56 · answer #7 · answered by Sufi 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It will take sometime for her to trust you- as it does with anyone in a new relationship.Ask yourself :Can you trust yourself to be true to her? I don't want to be horrid but what goes around comes around:can you trust her not to cheat on you?
2007-07-27 03:35:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it will take time but you will have to work hard dont ever be secretive as that will cause suspicion instantly an try to explain that you were young,stupid and totally selfish but she has something that makes you fell that you could never hurt her. and dont cheat again honesty is the best policy
2007-07-27 03:44:05 · answer #9 · answered by mischief_fairy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u shouldnt have cheated in the first place cause that is gonna b with ya for the rest of ur life but maby one day she will trust ya gd luck
2007-07-27 03:31:32 · answer #10 · answered by hiyaihopeicanhelp 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Be an "open book" and be honest. Don't hide anything from her and be where you said you'll be - when you say you'll be there. Don't hide phone calls, numbers, e-mails, etc... She'll trust you until you give her a reason not to.
2007-07-27 03:33:56 · answer #11 · answered by Jeff 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋