i need help getting over my shyness its hard for me to get girls because im sooo shy. my friends always tell me to drink and then i wont be shy but idk if that would help would it?
please help
2007-07-27 00:27:28 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
DRINK!
it IS the answer. if u have even a little bit of self control, you can get drunk from time to time, without becoming an 'addict'. u dont have to drink till u drop dead, just get tipsy. it helps get over ur self consciousness and will show u that u can act confident without ppl judging you. if u want, just try it once.....dont overdo it, and its a great experience. what do u have to lose? if alcohol were that dangerous, why do ppl all over the world drink every day?
try it...drink once, not too drunk, u wanna be talking to girls, and if they see that ur drunk theyll just laugh at u. so just drink till ur happy and sociable, go talk to girls and see how they react. also, dont sleep home that night. got to a friends house to avoid trouble at home. dont drive!!!
also, dont expect too much success on the first night, be patient, and itll work out. also, drinking by itself wont help. u have to/want to change, and drinking might help a little.
PS dont take ppl on the net (me) too seriously. ppl dont know u (how old are u?), and u dont know ppl(how dumb am i?)
hope this helps
edit: just wanted to stress on the 'dont drink too much' part. dont get drunk, just till u feel a bit of tipsyness. girls will like a shy guy way more than a drunk guydrink slowly...
2007-07-27 01:07:58 · answer #1 · answered by omgtheykilledkenny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friends are dead wrong!
Two things, shyness is a form of anxiety. Anxiety causes increased heartbeat, rapid breathing, prespiration. If you start to feel this physical reactions and tell yourself that it is only physical and will stop, it helps control the emotion of shyness.
Second, you do realize that a lot of really nice, sweet girls prefer shy-guys to the blowhards who drink their courage and act like *s*ho*es! Really, those guys do not get the good girls.
2007-07-27 00:33:36 · answer #2 · answered by Rebecca W 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Social Anxiety And Shyness Cure : http://tinyurl.com/dIXCTx4p7p
2015-09-25 13:50:11 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drinking is not the answer. Just remember that if you're worried about embarrassing moments happening, that everyone does something silly at some point and learn to laugh at yourself!
2007-07-27 00:33:24 · answer #4 · answered by nosycap9 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
DO NOT DRINK! just take it cool... just go up to a girl you like and ask her what she likes do not back off cause you can do it ..i m ean what have you got to lose? get more around the girl you like talk with her get comfterable give her smiles there you shy goes byebye!
2007-07-27 00:44:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should not drink. that a total turn off for a girl. u might even make a very bad impression and u know those last forever. U should be yourself...coach yourself and keep in mind that these girls are not out to get you. laugh and make conversation it will turn out fine.
2007-07-27 00:32:21 · answer #6 · answered by Indgrid 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nooooo! dont even think about drinking! it mght make you feel good but believe me it isnt good at all! you just need to believe in yourself... you shouldnt worry about being shy, take drama lessons, they really help. and id a girl really likes u, she shouldnt care about little things like that, just go up to her and tell her how u feel!!! and good luck too!
2007-07-27 00:46:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can't help you because you only can help yourself. but the best way for me is try to talk to your mom or whomever in a long conversation. then try with the girls you know and they know you too... or something like that.
2007-07-27 00:37:25 · answer #8 · answered by ChoChi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yr so called friends arwe trying to get u drunk and take advatage of u.Dont be stupid .there are other ways to overcome yr shyness
2007-07-27 00:32:31 · answer #9 · answered by chasen54 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no.. dont drink!
things will worsen.. just think it's not your face they're seeing.. like your someone else.. dont be afraid.. :)
2007-07-27 00:31:24 · answer #10 · answered by nina 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋