do you like people looking at you ????
2007-07-27 00:15:11 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I HATE when people stare at me! And they do it all the time! I live in an extremely culturally diverse area, so it has nothing to do w/ race. They just stare, turning their heads to keep up w/ me and everything! I used to get a little combative at prolonged staring ("WHAT???!"), but now I politely ask, "Hi there! Do you need something from me?" Turns out, they always think I look familiar: a co-worker, cousin, someone they hung out w/ in the past. And some have said that the things I do are interesting. So? It's worse in the Dominican Republic, where my husband's from. People will come out of their houses to stare. I hate it. I told my husband that in the U.S., staring is a challenge...an invitation to fight. It's a shame that it angers me, b/c those same people will then turn around and invite us in for coffee or a meal and are very nice. I just try to ignore starers, but I do speak up if it gets out of hand.
2007-07-27 02:55:43 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I dont mind when people stare at me, People stare at people out of curiosity because they are new to them or they are fascinated by the looks of different people
2007-07-27 07:33:20 · answer #2 · answered by friend_indeed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, that is rude. I don't stare at people and I don't like them starring at me.
2007-07-27 13:20:02 · answer #3 · answered by Mimi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends how obvious they are. I don't like people staring like a fool and not saying anything or if they are big jerks about it. But attention is great!
2007-07-28 16:23:15 · answer #4 · answered by Lydia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't mind when people look but when people stare it makes me uncomfortable.
2007-07-27 07:59:32 · answer #5 · answered by lillulu460 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they young cheking me out, and have smile etc, then its ok
If they just staring for so long, and giving me evil looks i be worried and will freak me out.
I hate when old men look though - sick
2007-07-27 07:39:55 · answer #6 · answered by Rosy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on why they are looking at me. If their checking me out, then its ok, if they are staring at some stain on my shirt than I would tend to get a little angry.
2007-07-27 07:19:33 · answer #7 · answered by Mrs. Duncan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When they stare at me like i did something wrong i hate that
2007-07-27 10:10:54 · answer #8 · answered by xXVernonXx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Generally, no problem! sometimes, in some circumstances, in public places, staring puts me on guard, makes me nervous!
2007-07-27 07:20:15 · answer #9 · answered by swanjarvi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no not really till our eyes meet then i give them about 5 seconds to look away before i say "what"
2007-07-27 09:55:34 · answer #10 · answered by Rhaven 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋