Lots of songs bring back memories..but all my memories make me kinda sad. I get this feeling..an "empty feeling" Does this happen to anyone else and why?
2007-07-27 00:03:03 · 13 answers · asked by Becca♥ 6 in Health ➔ Mental Health
Im 14 by the way...too young to be depressed?
2007-07-27 00:14:22 · update #1
Its normal... It makes you look back on happier times. Like when you were young, or a lost love or parents looking back when their kids were babies that are now all grown up. Or a family member that has passed away that you were close to. Its pass memories that has come and gone. I try not to get over whelmed because you just cant go back. That's why we have our memories.
2007-07-27 00:20:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 1⤋
I've been 'labeled' with depression, on and off, since i was 13. It has been a few years now, so I know what you're talking about when you refer to that 'empty feeling'.
Try taking up a new hobby, learning a new instrument is a great method. Listen to funny comedians on your MP3 or CD player. Watch funny TV shows, go on long hikes with a friend that you really trust and care about. Open yourself up and ask yourself why you are the way you are.
Your empty feeling may be coming from the same situation I had. I never felt like anyone, not even my family, loved me. We never had the best relationship and I was always plagued with doubt. Doubt will soon eat away at you and leave nothing but an empty shell.
This is nothing that time won't heal. Keep a smile on your face and one day, your inside will reflect that smile. When you realize it does, you'll be so happy that you might start to float. Enjoy the good times and learn from the bad, life is pretty difficult... doesn't mean that you can't take it slow.
Take everything one step at a time.
2007-07-27 05:03:05 · answer #2 · answered by mull it over 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
no, 14 year old children get depressed. Find something that interests you. Sounds like you are just bored.. Go to the library. Go out and meet people. go window shopping. Do something with your parents or siblings.
If sad songs make you sad, and you have no reason to be sad, then you are just a melancholy girl and if you don't want to be sad.......don't listen to those sad songs. Listen to more up songs...
You are definitely too young to have an empty feeling. Fill your life with something fun.
Most of all Pray and ask the Lord to take this away. To put joy in your life. He knows and He cares.
He will answer and His answer will be the right one.
2007-07-27 02:30:11 · answer #3 · answered by Carol 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The empty feeling occurs when something unresolved comes up and the brain asks for some kind of resolvement. The empty feeling is the brain asking "what do I do with this" and then stalling until some answer comes, which is either "nothing" or "something".
To avoid the question coming up again about the same topic, you just settle with the topics and accept them as being done with. Shake them off, so to speak, and accept the past as it is.
Then move on in your present life...
2007-07-27 00:10:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well that's called BAD MEMORIES and it's store in our mind. Our brain is programmed to remember things; good things and bad things. So sometimes when external factors (e.g. songs, ppl, environment & etc) touches at the right time and right place, it triggers our brain to recall the memories.... But most important is how u deal with those empty feelings. Everyone has it.... For me i will pray to God and hand over all my sadness and emptiness to Him and in exchange i accept Love and Faith from Him. Cheers.
2007-07-27 00:31:59 · answer #5 · answered by shaunlau2210 1 · 3⤊ 1⤋
No you`re not too young to be depressed, you need to change your life. AND YOU CAN!! Make sure you get a decent education and start a great life for yourself. Have wonderful experiences, and enjoy life!! Don`t stay depressed long, change your life.
2007-07-27 10:45:06 · answer #6 · answered by lost2day 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i feels that way too... life use to be so good to me, having someone around that I can talk to. we don't chat about my problems by just chating with her about anything makes my day great. Now i just spend my day thinking about those days
Oh, there are so many songs that reminds me of her and those memories
3 songs was given to me by her
And there's this song Blind by Lifehouse. I always gets me in a sad mood when I listens to it.
2007-07-27 01:11:04 · answer #7 · answered by Hornet One 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Yup. It happened to me. Sometimes I feel so lonely and there's nothing in this world can make me smile again. But it's juz a temporary feeling.
U'll b fine once u talk 2 ur family, frenz, bf :)
2007-07-27 00:06:45 · answer #8 · answered by farizah_t 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you may have heard it before and you may not take my advise ,you may never understand or believe....just take a few quiet moments and ...
Talk to Jesus he is a living God who is the spirit who was and is and always will be.
He cares,he hears and he see's and he can fill you with the holy spirit -an abundance of peace and joy beyond your comprehension.call Jesus today, learn about him and follow him and start to live.
2007-07-27 00:46:38 · answer #9 · answered by skye 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Feeling depressed? talk to someone soon ,look after yourself. Go to GP your not on your own
2007-07-27 00:13:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋