She now blames it on me because i didnt go. SHe wanted to kiss him really badly so she told her friend to dare her. ggggggggrrrrrrrrr. HE apligized and was very nice about it and im still going out with him but i ditched her. Did i make the right desicion? and what should i do to get her back or anything?
2007-07-26 21:09:06 · 26 answers · asked by kitybom123 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
With friends like that you dont need enemies... you did the right thing and never have anything to do with her again
2007-08-03 17:47:04 · answer #1 · answered by tennessee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She kissed him on purpose? I never heard of kissing someone by accident. What did she do, hold him down and make him kiss her? I mean, that's why you ditched her and not him, right? Actually, I would ditch them both. It really hurts when a friend betrays you, sometimes I think worse than the boyfriend messing around. But she didn't do this alone. And I'm pretty sure she didn't have to run him down in the street to kiss him. Forget getting back at her. Waste of time and energy. Move on. Oh, and kick boyfriend to the curb.
2007-07-27 04:15:11 · answer #2 · answered by claudiacake 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What we have here is adolescent drama. This is nothing new and it only gets worse when you get older when it involves sex and not just a kiss. These are the building blocks of life. Men are weak when women are coming on to them. But it's these experiences we learn from and make us stronger. In high school my friend was out of town and his girlfriend was coming onto me and I kept refusing. She was so persistent I gave in and we had sex. The guilt was unbelievable. I have never repeated such an action. He found out about it and we remained friends after a long talk. I would not write your friend off just yet. We tend to do stupid things when we are young. Many adults still do stupid things. Adults however should know better but they still do it in moments of weakness. Our former President Clinton is an example. His wife was able to forgive him as well as the American people. If these two people are close to you and you consider them good friends forgiveness is an option.
2007-08-03 05:28:06 · answer #3 · answered by bullsprig 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DON"T GET BACK AT HER!!! let a hoe be a hoe.
First off consider how old are you guys???
Did she know better???
I mean if she is one of you best friends you can keep her around but never forget what she's worth and as for your BF tell him if anything like that happends again he can kiss your a$$ goodbye, because he's not worth the BS.
2007-08-04 02:09:56 · answer #4 · answered by ♥100%BayLady♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ifyou've stopped hanging out - i think thats kinda getting back at her , because she's lost a great friendship.
Please dont give her a chance to do it again, so please try not to be friends with her. What kid of friend goes kissing her friends boyfriend? Only a fake one. So i dont think she should be trusted.
As for him, consider his honesty as well? Did he tell you about the kiss? How did you find out about it? Did he actually tell you and apologize?
hm... good luck, but it seems like you need to get rid of both of them, and look for a new best friend, and a new boyfriend.
2007-07-27 04:13:39 · answer #5 · answered by Kendi 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should have ditched him too. If she was truly your best friend she wouldn't want to kiss him. And if he was an honest boyfriend he wouldn't have kissed her. And honestly don't try to do anything to get her back. It will just start unwanted drama and let her know she has won. But, don't forget he kissed her too, it takes two to tango dear.
2007-07-27 04:16:23 · answer #6 · answered by Lilly 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she did that to you, don't be friends with her. Yep, you did that. If they guy apologized, then make sure he's sincere. Of course, you made the right decision. You shouldn't get her back, after what she did to you. That's the most horrible thing that can ever happen to you if you're close with your boyfriend! Just let her be. If she wants to be friends with you again, make sure she's sincere.
2007-07-27 04:13:57 · answer #7 · answered by clandestine 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont get her back. she isnt a good friend and u dont want her to think that u have been taking the times to think about revenge on her. what she did was wrong, so just drop her out of ur life for now until she shows some maturity :)
2007-08-03 18:17:32 · answer #8 · answered by ♥Amanda Grace♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did he kiss her back? Do you still trust him? If cut all of the people who create drama in your life out it'll be a much better.
2007-07-27 04:14:32 · answer #9 · answered by Kween Bobby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont have to ditch anybody. you always have to stick with your girls and you shouldnt let a playful little kiss ruin the friendship. even after he apologized and he didnt take anything of it of her kissing him. just apologize to your friend.
2007-08-03 21:06:33 · answer #10 · answered by Subtle Revenge 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋