My bff madeout w/ this guy a week or so agothat i liked and he liked me while i was out of town. And after a while I forgaveher, she said that she didn't want to kiss him she just didn't know how to say no. so I went back to her house. And he was there. But I didn't give him much notice[he didn't know I knew he madeout with my bff]. And a few days later while I was still at her house and he was there too. While I was in a room alone he came in we were just standing there for a moment. Then we were like doing this weird thing where we were eskimo-kissing[ha sounds weird]then he kissed me on the forehead and left.I went outside.my bff was out there, she told me he had tried kissing her in the hall way ealier that day after I told her me and him were like flirting inside or w/e.he came out and she told him that i knew he madeout w/ her.he told her he wanted to go out with me again. and she told me and i said no. later that nite she told me how she wantd me to go out with him just so mite heart would get broken then she would have her chance w/ him. then she told me later that she was a compolsive liar. and then i was thinking about it and realized. wat if she didnt want to say no? it has been driving me crazy. what should i do? i still like the guy. but she told me he already had 3 g/f. but was that just one of her lies?
2007-07-26 20:10:41 · 7 answers · asked by Miki 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
u should dump that guy he is a player who is trying to have fun with both of ull
also stop being friends with this girl obviously she has broken ur trust and may do so in the future
2007-07-26 20:17:19 · answer #1 · answered by dan brown 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Realize that it's just a guy, there are tons of them, and if you're young it's not likely you'll be together forever.
If she doesn't know you like him, sit down and talk to her.
She may not like him, she may be shes jealous.
Remember that she has the right to like him just as much as you do!
Think of something she may be jealous of that you have/do.
Example: You're jealous of her flirting, but she is jealous that you can eat tons without gaining weight.
Lastly, live with what you have and accept that you wont get every guy, it's just how life works.
Also, realize that if your crush likes you and he's is flirting with your friend maybe he's not worth it.
She might just be trying to make you jealous on purpose and if that's the case then she's not a very good friend, and you should consider getting new friends.
2007-07-26 20:14:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't trust this girl. She has more problems than you might think and is just trying to get you involved. You do NOT want to be friends with a girl that plays these tricks like this, because that is just NOT what friends would do to eachother, and I know girls like this, they do whatever they can to whoever they can just to get a guy's attention, and to feel special, because to them, that's more important than genuine friendship. You said you were BFF's with here, so it's not like you can just END the friendship. Ask her nicely just to be honest with you, you'd rather have her be honest with you and tell you something you don't want to hear than to tell you good things and have it all be a lie.
2007-07-26 20:17:24 · answer #3 · answered by Amy Jo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he liked you he wouldn't of made out with your bff.. >_>.. and your bff probably has some feelings for him... or might of been luring him... but he isn't a good guy anyways to make out with with your bff when you liked him.. plus you shouldn't share guys with your bffs..low class..your bff is a ho too btw for making out with the guy you like..think about it...
2007-07-26 20:16:24 · answer #4 · answered by . 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ahh... high school drama. The guy is obviously a player and your, "friend" not so much a true friend.
2007-07-26 20:14:39 · answer #5 · answered by superrr_star88 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump both of them. Tell her you want a friend, not a drama queen, tell him you don't want to share or be second choice.
2007-07-26 20:16:50 · answer #6 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop all this and concenterate on studies
2007-07-26 20:15:41 · answer #7 · answered by swati_chhavi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋