we had a relationship for one yr and a half now and we always argue for those long period he always hides his cellphone and has pictures of girls in his wallpaper. this makes me jealous and he is always telling me that those are only friends. Everytime he will hang out with his "friends as what he told me" he always turning off his cellphone. I cannot contact him . He will just call me when he is about to go home . When we are hanging out he is turning his cellphone mute and never answer his cell in front of me or as an excuse "I'll go to the restroom ok" . One time he will hang out but I told him not to and he was so mad; phone rang and he doesnt want me to see who's calling that made me jealous and upset. Everytime I sleep in his house or vice versa his cellphone is turned off and hide it. I have strong feeling that there something is going on . What shld I do I'm afraid to lose him bec I love this guy but it hurts me a lot about those signs Pls help.
2007-07-26 19:48:18 · 9 answers · asked by anne 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wow. I don't know him, or how he acts to you in person..but it doesn't sound like he's loyal. if my boyfriend had done stuff like that, and was hiding stuff, then i'd know that this relationship would not work because there is suppose to be truth and honesty in a relationship. you have to be open friends, to be bf/gf. i know you love him, but sometimes you have to give up who you love..bcuz it doesnt work out. believe me, there's someone out there who'll treat you so much better than this loser. i've come to learn that [: so don't worry..there's a GREAT guy out there for you.
2007-07-26 19:55:42 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry your going through rough time with your BF. If you feel it in your gut that something is isn't right, it usually is true. If he really loves you then he shouldn't be hiding stuff from u, he seems like he's hiding something obviously. If he doesn't want u to see whos calling then theres something wrong right there! You should give him an ultimatum. If you can't trust him then theres no relationship, because realtionship is based on trust. Try talking to him about it. If he don't want to then give him the ultimatum, either stop being so secretive or I'll leave you! Tell him that! If that was me, I would have kick him down the curb long time ago lol :) Goodluck!
2007-07-26 20:02:32 · answer #2 · answered by Itoshii 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure you do care about him a lot.. but you need to talk to him.. tell him how you feel.. That doesn't sound cool to me that he's doing that. Sounds a little suspicious. If he really does care about you, he will tell you what exactly is going on. If not, maybe it's time you find someone else. I know it will be difficult, but you've gotta do something. Don't just sit around and let him hide things like that from you.
2007-07-26 19:53:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dump him...he's a user.
Once you kick him to the curb, make an appointment with the local clinic, and have yourself tested everyway from Sunday for STDs...not all STDs present symptoms in everyone, and many can be fatal, and a very few can *not* be cured.
2007-07-26 20:32:29 · answer #4 · answered by jcurrieii 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was like that with my x-girlfriend. i always have pictures of my friend in my cell phone. if i was u just tell him how you feel before is to late because after that you are going to get tired and break up with him trust me that happen to me
2007-07-26 20:01:06 · answer #5 · answered by Andres M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes totally hiding something. he might be cheating on you. even if it hurts, i gotta tell u that u dont deserve this guy. you cant even trust him and hes not always there for you. all he does is made you mad, cry and very upset. you deserve someone better.
2007-07-26 19:54:07 · answer #6 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find another man....he's not worth your time. If you two have an open realtionship and date others great but it's obvious he is trying to hide something...forget em.
2007-07-26 19:52:47 · answer #7 · answered by Josh G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry, but whatever hes hiding from you cant be good, so what i would do is confront him and ask him about it and if he wont tell you, dump him on the spot.
2007-07-26 19:53:07 · answer #8 · answered by jDubKilz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i totally agree with drum major girl
2007-07-26 19:55:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋