I'm stuck at home 24/7 and I have no friends. I'm starting to get very sick of it. My boyfriend doesn't like any of the people I have tried to be friends with. The only time I hang out with anyone besides him is when we go out with the guy he works with and his wife.
2007-07-26 17:24:04 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him how you feel. I have never met you face to face but we will always be friends.
2007-07-26 17:27:23 · answer #1 · answered by Steven C 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well lets say this is from a mans point of view that had the same problem with being insecure and i'll let you know now it'll never change and now that i look back on how very stupidly i treated women i hate the person i was it's hard to say just leave him but if you want a life and trust me it is very hard to find a good man now a days but if a man doesn't have confidence hes not much of a man and to not let you have friends is just completly insane cuz everyone needs a way to feel like themselves i have went to councling on my own cuz i knew i had a problem and i am a new man because of it and if the only reason a person goes to councling is cuz they are being threated by someone and they don't really want to do it, it will only most likely be for show to keep you around so it's a tough decision try to adress it don't tell him if you don't get help i am gone cuz then that wouldn't be because he knows he needs help that would be for show to keep you just tell him you think that he needs some help and just leave it at that if he fights with you about then i promise it is gonna be useless and try what you can to get out but if he makes an effort give him a chance
2007-07-27 00:33:29 · answer #2 · answered by stjr24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can understand where your coming from. Unfortunately there are quite a few women in the same position you're in! If you still care about this guy, then of course stay with him. But understand that the lifestyle you're living is incredibly unhealthy. He may not enjoy the company you keep but YOU are the one who has to be around them, not him! Humans in nature need contact and social interaction. No one enjoys living a life alone!
Just go out and have fun, meet new people and make an effort to reach out and have a social life! After a while, if your man still doesn't understand..then maybe you should rethink your whole relationship. Would you really want to single out the person you cared for? You only have one life to live, don't live it alone. Have some fun!
2007-07-27 00:32:15 · answer #3 · answered by Marissa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh Jesus!!! Please Help Yourselves!!! Try Something Creative And You Can Go Out On Your Own Since You're Not A Handicapped Girl!! And Why Your BF Tries To Act More Possesive Than Even A Husband????
2007-07-27 00:32:44 · answer #4 · answered by faizaan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend is isolating you from a social life and that is not healthy in any kind of relationship. I had a boyfriend once that did that to me. Systematically isolated me from my friends and tried with my family but they never allowed that and wouldn't butt out thank god. I ended up in the end getting the crap beat out of me and I was pregnant because he didn't like what I did how I did my hair etc. Any really good relationship you have no matter how annoying your friends are or his are you deal with it and regardless of what you think or he thinks they are your friends and that's the way it is. DUMP HIM and get a friggin social life!
2007-07-27 00:31:18 · answer #5 · answered by Kathy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know if this will help but my mom was getting tired of hanging around the house also, so she decided to join one of those curves groups. I guess its some sort of exercise center, but she said it was a great way to socialize with people and be active at the same time
2007-07-27 00:30:01 · answer #6 · answered by amanda marie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find people in your area...another woman maybe online or something? It may sound a little weird, but I've become friends with lots of girls on MySpace for example and then we hung out in person together and it was perfectly fine. If he doesn't like the people you hang out, you should ask him his reasons.
2007-07-27 00:27:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, this is not good for you at all. Try explaining to your boyfriend your needs and that he needs to lighten up on your selection of friends. If he doesn't understand this and support you in your time of need... ask yourself - will he ever be there for me? If the answer is no - you should go and find someone who will be. Life is too short not to have love, support and understanding of your needs in your immediate surroundings. God Bless! I hope this helped.
2007-07-27 00:52:49 · answer #8 · answered by Cindy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your boyfriend is jealous of you having other contact besides him. You need to be independent and tell him how the isolation is making you feel - if he cares about you he would support you in making new friends.
2007-07-27 00:29:13 · answer #9 · answered by Monkey007 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry you need to say buy to him you should not be inside 24/7 that would drive anyone nuts go out have fun enjoy something and let him stay home24/7 and see how he feels oh why does he haft to like them they your friends leave him girl life is to short
2007-07-27 00:35:29 · answer #10 · answered by marsh 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. Is he really worth the trouble? If he cant accept your friends and your space...then you should let him go. Talk to him and let him know that things need ta change or he can hang out with another one of his friends. Good luck in whatever you choose to do sweetie!
2007-07-27 00:34:25 · answer #11 · answered by lovinlyfe38 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋