Do you know that bad treatment of women is not allowed in Islam, especially daughters?

Question

What do you think of this?

""The believing man or woman upon whom there is the responsibility of daughters and he or she discharges it well and treats them with affection, the daughters will become a means of freedom, for him or her, in the hereafter.

It is related by Anas (R.A.) that the Prophet (S.A.W.) said "The believer who bears the responsibility of two daughters and supports them till they attain puberty, he and I will be close to one another like this on the Day of Judgement." Anas (R.A.), adds that the Prophet (S.A.W.) showed, by joining the fingers of his hand, that as the fingers were close to one another, in the same way will the believer be close to him on the Day of Judgement.

Abu Saeed Khudri (R.A.) relates that the Prophet (S.A.W.) said "Whoever bears the responsibility of three daughters or sisters or even of two daughters or sisters, and bears it well, and looks after their training and welfare properly, and then, gets them married, Allah will reward him with Paradise."

In these Ahadith, the Prophet (S.A.W.) has not only stated that kind treatment was the natural right or claim of the daughters, but, also that the believers who fulfilled the obligation towards them in a good and proper manner would be rewarded with Paradise in the hereafter. He, further, gives the joyful tidings that such a man will be close to him, on the Day of Judgement, as the fingers of a hand are, when joined together.

Answer 1

Do you know that bad treatment of women is not allowed in Islam, especially daughters?
OK
I accept that.
Only got one question then.
Who do the Muslims not follow the rules of Islam?

Answer 2

Id like to believe that but I cant what with the very poor treatment of women all over islamic countries and islamic scripture:

"Men are the maintainers of women because Allah has made some of them to excel others and because they spend out of their property; the good women are therefore obedient, guarding the unseen as Allah has guarded; and (as to) those on whose part you fear desertion, admonish them, and leave them alone in the sleeping-places and ***beat them***; then if they obey you, do not seek a way against them; surely Allah is High, Great."

(Quran sura 4:34)

"I have seen that the majority of the dwellers of Hell-Fire were women....[because] they are ungrateful to their husbands and they are deficient in intelligence. " (The Prophet Muhammad) Hadith Sahih Bukhari V 2, B 24, N 541

Answer 3

Why don't you ever show the verses that say a husband can beat his wife? He should kick her out of bed? Honor killings, should we discuss that. Brothers killing sisters. Fathers killing daughters. Oh but killing is not bad treatment I guess. How about the teachings in mosques that a child should be hit if he/she doesn't pray? A girl should be hit if she refuses to wear the hijab. You forgot that allah said women are deficient to men, lower than dogs. That's your own deity's words and that of your evil false prophet. That's not God's word. You pick and choose and mislead people and you should be ashamed. I wonder if you teach Muslim children that the Holocaust never happened as other Muslims do. Teaching hatred of Jews is bad treatment in case you didn't know.

People also need to know that Muslims are allowed, by allah, to lie for their faith. Lie to infidels because we are nothing. Again, that's allah teaching, not God.

Answer 4

hmmmm wouldnt have guessed since it is well known they are the head of the household and can beat them if he wants. I have heard of islamic men killing their wives and thats ok also.

I have this really great book on christian martyrs and husbands kill wives and daughters if they turn to a different belief. I am glad that isnt the way it is here in the US!

I agree that not all muslims are bad either, there is good everywhere in every country, I am just saying that maybe they should practice what they preach....or what they "believe"

Answer 5

islam (the real Quranic islam - not ''hadith'' and other fabrications) gives women rights that's true, but just chanting them doesn't mean anything.. most women in these 'islamic' countries DO NOT have equal rights... best example is [the usually forced] veil.

Answer 6

Not so fast-

II/223: Your women are a tilth for you (to cultivate). So go to your tilth as ye will...

Here you can clearly see how highly Islam treats women. Women in Islam are referred to as fields that are to be cultivated by man. What an honor for a Muslim woman!

IV/34: Men are in charge of women, because Allah hath made the one of them to excel the other.. As for those from whom ye fear rebellion, admonish them and banish them to beds apart, and scourge them.

First point to notice here is that Quran clearly states that Men are superior to women. Secondly, Islam instructs that a man should control his women through brutal violence and fear.

IV/15: (For women) If any one of your women is guilty of lewdness ...confine them until death claims them.

IV/16: (For Men) If two men among you commit indecency (sodomy) punish them both. If they repent and mend their ways, let them be. Allah is forgiving and merciful.

As you can see, for women any sort of sexual exploration is punishable by death. Whereas for a man, any form of perversion is pardoned by the all merciful Allah.

XXIV/6-7: As for those who accuse their wives but have no witnesses except themselves , let the testimony of one of them be four testimonies...

Answer 7

I keep hearing about how the "beautiful" religion of Islam doesn't allow all this barbaric, violent behavior and yet thousands of Muslims keep doing these things. I wonder why.

Answer 8

I think it is a very nice dream.

Answer 9

Please stop spamming with your "did you know" non-questions.

Get back to me when all muslims treat women with respect, no matter who they decide to marry or if they decide to leave islam.

Answer 10

Did you know that it's not allowed in the U.S. either?