she likes movies but not more than 2-3 per day.
she likes the waterpark but it's hard for me to go on all the slides with her and she won't go alone (i'm 47)
she's bored and doesn't want to do anything we suggest.
when asked, she doesn't know what she wants to do.
2007-07-26 16:18:15 · 15 answers · asked by Sufi 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
take her home, she can be miserable there and you won't have to feel bad about it.
you tried
2007-07-26 16:23:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Why can't you go on all the slides with her. Sounds like you hate some things too. I have a 12 year old niece who lost her father. There's nothing I wont do with her. Some of the roller coasters add a few years to my life but she has fun. Soon she will be to old to have some old guy going places with her. So I'm loving it now while I can.
2007-07-26 23:27:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try doing something extrmly new, like going to a carnival if she wasn't gone or a circus. Maybe something musical or artisit. To me it sounds like she is bored with things like in school when kids misbave sometimes because the work is not challenging any more. Doing something different could spark a new interest and could get her involved in things.
2007-07-26 23:31:28 · answer #3 · answered by eyes_r_open 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she hates her mother. And is totally insecure because of their relationship. Force her to stick eye and clitoral piercings and paint her nails black. This is the normal route for these type kids. Then they will do Lot's of drugs, strip at a club then marry a abusive guy that can't support them then eventually commit suicide. LOL. Poss. a bit facetious BUT...
What do you do? Are you serious? Do things with her and her Mom. Make things happy and about her. Your gonna lose her if YOU don't.
Get to it today...
She is still a kid. Don't treat her as an adult like her mother does... Candy and talk about boys!
my wifes niece is just liek that. I tell her how pretty she is and treat her as she is. A KID. The only reason they act so mad is cuz we force them to deal with our pressures. LEt them be kids. We can deal with our stress..
2007-07-26 23:25:28 · answer #4 · answered by missed me sucka 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
for me as a 13 year old i too can also be lazy. but when you go to a waterpark invite one of her friends to go then she can be happy and have lots of fun. when she's board find something she likes to do.
2007-07-26 23:26:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a typical teenager in many ways. Does she have any peers who you could take along to the water park or any activity?
2007-07-26 23:24:00 · answer #6 · answered by Raul21 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take her to places u think she might like or next time u go to a water park have her invite a friend so she can still have fun but u won't have to get on all the rides. take her to the mall, shopping, to the park, to disney world, etc, fun places but have her bring a friend or 2.
2007-07-26 23:22:13 · answer #7 · answered by Myisha B 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
hmmm....i think tht this is just a stage! when i was 13 i waqs kinda focusing on other things like school, friends, and boys! i didnt really wanna do anything tht im interested in now! she will change eventually and when she does you will have your fun girl back! it will be worth the wait! i promise! just give her plenty of space and she will respect you more!!!!
good luck!
2007-07-26 23:24:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
she needs a friend which is her age so they both can have something in common or doing stuff they can both do to have fun !! ur 47 and shes 13!! she needs a friend her age trust me ..
2007-07-27 03:38:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well teenagers are picky, and I don't know anyone who likes more than 2-3 movies a day I know I don't it gets very boring!
2007-07-26 23:24:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a 14 year old and she is precoscious too. Just tell her this is what we are doing and just go do it. If you give her so many choices and always ask her what she wants to do a teens stock answers are "no" or "I dunno" or "oh mannnnnnnn". Make your own plans and if she chooses to join in great if not oh well her loss.
2007-07-26 23:22:38 · answer #11 · answered by Kathy 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋