So it was the day of the wedding. I was going to the restroom. I open the door and went toilet and there they were!!! Then they ran out and told me not to tell my uncle. Two month's after the wedding the feeling is still going threw my mind!! My uncle asked me about it at a party infront of everbody including my aunt and the best-man, was with his new wife. Should I tell my uncle?!!!!
2007-07-26 15:19:54 · 8 answers · asked by chris_mapp_3 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
MAN WUIT THE HELL?! I would confrount her and the best man. Never be afraid to tell, when a adult ask you a important matter, that is going on in the family!!!!!
2007-07-27 14:03:40 · answer #1 · answered by Daniel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In all honesty, I really do think you shouldn't keep this a secret. If your uncle's new wife wasn't faithful to him before they got married, how can you trust that she won't do it again?
Ask your new aunt first what the deal is with her and the best man, because she might have a REALLY good explanation. If she doesn't want to talk about it, or if she can't give you an answer, then she's not in the marriage for commitment, and your uncle deserves to know.
2007-07-26 22:28:47 · answer #2 · answered by Patty_08 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your uncle asked you about it at a party 'in front of everybody', then he either knows all about it or someone else may have hinted that You might know something.
If he really wanted to know what you know, he'd have asked you in private. Sometime when you're alone with him, make reference to the party that he asked you about it, and ask him why he asked you that... say something about it being a strange question, and go from there.
2007-07-26 22:38:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell your uncle because sooner or later he will find out. The sooner he finds out the less pain he will feel.
2007-07-26 22:31:41 · answer #4 · answered by That Guy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a lot nicer than me, I not only would have told but I would have kicked the crap out of her.
I would definitely talk to your uncle, she doesn't deserve him!
2007-07-26 23:19:34 · answer #5 · answered by Reba 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
do you want to have the guilt for the rest of your life? I would definately say something because I am an honest person and if something like that was going on behind my back I would want to know. Be honest.....would you want it to happen to you?
2007-07-26 22:30:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if it were me. i would tell him.you're kind of betraying your uncle by not telling him and having him live a fake marriage with his wife. you should always stand by your family before anyone or anything else =]]]
2007-07-26 22:29:34 · answer #7 · answered by sasha h 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should have told when it happened. Now he's married to a cheating whore.
2007-07-26 22:31:20 · answer #8 · answered by Aunt Doobie 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋