Why do my parents argue so much?

Question

Does this happen in all families?

Answer 1

no it is not normal. when t was growing up i never saw or heard my parents fighting. i was socked when i got married and we would disagree.maybe your parents are going Thur some hard times. talk to your mom and dad and see if there is something to do to help. pray for their happiness. good luck.

Answer 2

Yes it has happen to all families before and if it hasn't it will . The reason is because , we're not perfect we do things wrong and when we do things wrong our partner gets mad and we argue . And the reason why your parents argue is because they're not perfect , they make mistakes and they get mad and take it out on each other sometimes . And I know a lot of people will probally disagree with me but this is what I think and I'm sorry if you don't like it . By the way I am just speaking of personal experience so what I am saying might not have happen to everyone so everyone might not understand what I am talking about .

Answer 3

Yes, it does and the ones who say it doesn't, must be the brady bunch. Parents have a lot on their minds all the time and when things get to much they let it out. I am a parent and my husband and I argue all most all the time and it's mostly over money or situations at work or things of that nature, and sometimes over our daughter but it's usually over her not cleaning her room or her coming home late and not feeding her critters and I end up doing it. It's healthy to argue sometimes because it clears the air and things usually turn out ok. I don't want you to think that it's a bad thing because it may not be, things need to be talked about and sometimes lead to arguing and it doesn't sound like your parents are fighting physically but if they do then they have a problem.

Answer 4

I think arguments happen to some degree because it is a normal part of life and it is often how we communicate. It obviously is very stressful for you. When the atmosphere is calm at home, bring it up with your parents. Tell them that their arguing has caused you some tension and concerned feelings. Ask them whatever questions you have and give your opinions on how your home can become a happier one. Although you may feel like an outsider because you are not part of the argument, remember you're a big part of their lives and an equal part of the family. Your input may be what they need to get along a bit better. Good luck.

Answer 5

First off, where does patrickandamie get off saying what they did? Who do they think they are. Don't listen to such poison. And yes, I think everyone argues at times. Sometimes some more than others. Over years people drift apart and change. Sometimes for the better, sometimes not. If it is really bad, maybe they shouldn't be together anymore. I really don't know because I don't know them. Just hang loose and try not to interfere. Go to your room or elsewhere so you don't have to listen them. As long as you're safe and not being abused let them be. They're grownups and have to deal with this themselves. If it gets psychical than I'd call 911. Be safe and take care. It's alright, you're not to blame. When school starts back up talk to your guidance counselor, maybe they can help. From someone who knows what that's like. I'm a grownup now myself and hate to fight, so I try not to. And usually I won't.

Answer 6

Sometimes parents don't find the right communication channel so they try to say what the feel or think but, without understanding the other side. It's normal to argue from time to time but, when it gets too loud or it is too often there could be a problem. Any way it's never the kids fault.

Answer 7

to be honest with you,every family in this whole universe a argue day and night...probably the reason why they argue,coz that's not enough income or they just not in same boat....my parent's argue only once week it just about my mum spending so much money and there's thousand of bills lined up in front of them, and sometimes is there relationship they have good communication and they don't spend much time together..

Answer 8

dont listen to the @ hole that said you stole your parents happiness..what a load of sh_t to tell someone who's obviously going through a hard time. Your parent love you no matter how much they fight. My parents divorced before I could remember, and were great friends afterwards. They tried to get back together many times and still super love each other but cannot be together. It took many breakups to realize this but they still know they can count on each other. by the way when I said it didnt work out I mean super bad fighting...... really bad!

Answer 9

Arguing yes... but it can get out of hand... that's not normal. Or maybe it is normal... but it's not healthy. How old are you. Can you talk to them about it...or would that just make things worse? Good luck. Me and my husband argue in front of the kids too. Nothing extreme, but I'm sure it's not pleasant to be around.

Answer 10

some do argue alot its the only why they can seem to communicate and yea it get on your nervetell them how much it is upsetting you that they should seek therapy or get a divorce or something if they cant get along in the mean time go out of the house or keep your headphones on alt good luck!

Answer 11

i think now days everybody is so busy,,everything seems rushed no one takes the time to sit down,,relax and hold a normal conversation....i remember saying to my parrents when i was younger and they were having a massive row *how am i suppose to learn what a normal loving relationship is about with all this agro around!!!* and then i had to run for my life haha dont follow in my footsteps!!find nicer words to let them no that their arguing bothers you...if its gone on 4 so long now its just a habit that you may be able to break ,,good luck trying