what advice can i give her other than congratulations? everyone else has been bashing her. what can i do to show her support.after all she isw legally an adult, and her mom is not upset shes happy. any ideas...
2007-07-26 15:02:09 · 9 answers · asked by msblack23 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
Ignore the answer from kjnsr (the jerk)! This is "after the fact" and his advice is mean and pointless. You did not say how your cousin feels. If she is happy, then by all means support her and do whatever you can to be there for her. Obviously your aunt is very supportive too, which also helps. There are a lot of community support groups that can help single moms in there time of need. If your cousin is not happy, then another alternative is that she can put the baby up for adoption to a loving couple that can't have children.
2007-07-26 17:34:49 · answer #1 · answered by Sybel H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can start by advising her NOT to go on Maury! Instill in her to tighten up enough to be a 2 in one parent. Love herself and baby to the fullest and they both should be fine. Also add you will be there for her and the baby if she ever needs you
2007-07-26 23:53:40 · answer #2 · answered by aged grapes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a perfect example of how to get a discussion started. First of all, I would definitely advise her to start using condoms. If she's having sex with multiple partners, and getting pregnant, she's also exposing herself and baby to STD's.
2007-07-26 22:07:09 · answer #3 · answered by justanotherone 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be happy for the new life and move on. You said everyone is bashing her, so she is getting enough hate which she should and should not get. Move on be there for her.
2007-07-26 22:06:08 · answer #4 · answered by Shon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can love her and be good to the baby, but if she can't take care of it, she needs to put it up for adoption, or find out who the father is so that he can provide child support.
2007-07-26 22:06:14 · answer #5 · answered by mel s 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
JUST BE THERE FOR HER, DO NICE THINGS, IS THERE A MAN IN HER LIFE? IF NOT HELP HER OUT. YOU DEFINATELY HAVE TO HAVE A BABY SHOWER FOR HER BECAUSE FATHER OR NO FATHER THAT BABY DESERVES ALL THE LOVE SHE CAN GET AND IT WON'T MATTER FROM WHO AS LONG AS SHE IS LOVED.
2007-07-26 22:07:11 · answer #6 · answered by anitf26 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should get her on the Maury show to find out who the father is.
2007-07-26 22:27:57 · answer #7 · answered by happydawg 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont get on her just act like everything is fine and tell her to be happy that she has a little one what is anyone gonna go about it bothering her and reminding her wont change facts
2007-07-26 22:08:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep yer legs closed -
2007-07-26 22:06:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋