i am 18, so it is legal to date older men. i am with a 52 year old man. is that right?

Question

i am also 7 months pregnet. we decided to name the boy Hugo.
my mom is 47 and my dad is 53. he is older then the man that i am dating. my parents dont know. this man hasent asked me to marry him. do you think he will leave me?
if you have advice please help me!

Answer 1

your just looking for everybody to react.

Answer 2

It's legal, but it isnt right. A man of 52 with an 18 year old? Sorry, I really am, but the chances are that if he hasnt proposed marriage, then he never will. Oh Lord, how can he have allowed this happen, I know you're 18 and an adult, but a man of his age who can get a girl pregnant is a disgrace, I truly hope that I'm wrong and he will marry you, look after you and your child, but he doesn't sound to me like a responsible, decent guy. Tell your parents the truth, they're going to have to know soon. Here's a test, ask this man to come to your house and tell your Dad what the score is. If he refuses, that should tell you all you need to know. Good Luck, sweet, really, I mean it, you seem a good girl, and I hope all turns out well for you.

Answer 3

If you are 18, you are allowed to date older men. Dating a 52-year old man and becoming pregnant with him... he probably will not leave you for a little while for he may be feeling that he might eventually leave this world and leave the child to you. The older man is probably happy that he can leave a child in this world before he leaves. You need to talk about everything you can think of with him and ask him to marry you. If not now, in a couple years.

Answer 4

Well, first of all, it is a little too late to start wondering if it is right or not. It WAS your right to date whom ever you wanted, but the story changed the minute you got pregnant. Please finish your education, he will not be around forever and you have yours and your baby's future to think about. I hope you have him sign the birth certificate, so that you can get the support that it is going to take to raise that baby. By now your parents have to know that you are expecting a baby, what do they think about it and have they ask about the father? Not something that you can keep a secret much longer. You can play with your life all you want, but now there is a baby involved now. I truly hope this is just a question you came up with to see what kind of response you get, I feel sorry for that baby, if it is true.

Answer 5

first, isn't it a little late to ask if it's legal to date a 52 year old? You are already pregnant! Second,your dad is only older than this pervert by one year! Third,, yes, you should tell your parents, they are going to be grandparents! Fourth, what are you thinking? And YES, this guy is bound to leave sooner or later. He has no reason to stay, you are 34 years his junior, he probably has grown kids older than you, you are not married obviously, and have nothing in common. My advice to you is to tell your parents what is going on. you are too young (even though you are 18) to deal with this mess on your own. you need rational, experienced adults to help you sort everything out and to help you get ready for what lies ahead (the baby!).

Answer 6

Mannnnnnnnnnn. Are you serious? I'm sure your parents know your pregnant! Not to alarm you or anything, but I would let them know because on the birth certificate it lists the age of the parents and you don't want your parents to find out like that. What can they do? Were you dating him when you were 17, legally that is child molestation, but your 18 now and even though it might look disgusting to everyone looking into your box, it's legal.Good luck with the baby and everything going on in your life!

Answer 7

I hope he doesn't leave you, but you're right once you're 18 you can date anyone 10, 20 even 30 years older than you. Some people may disapprove, but IMO age is nothing but a number. As long as you two love each other and he treats you right, that's all that counts.

Answer 8

so you say your 7 months pregnet
maybe you should tell you parents you dont want to go to thanksgiving dinner and out of no where they have a grandchild

well if you love him .................... i guess its ok yu are legal

but like you said he hasent asked you to marry him
you need to watch him and make sure he dosent try to leave you because it sounds like he's just in it for the sex
and if you do get married if i were you i would get a life insurance policy
but if you dont get childsupport

Answer 9

What could you two possibly have in common? Now he's going to have to keep working until he's at least 70, just to get thru supporting the kid thru high school. YOU had better count on having to go to work within 3 months of having the baby abd working for the next 50 yrs to help support your family to be - Have fun!!! Gee.. You'll be changing baby diapers at 19 and adult diapers at 50

Answer 10

a 52 year old,
honestly
and he got you preggers
can he even get hard anymore, even with the help of viagra,
honey your missing out on life, get a younger man for heavens sake, a have some real fun in bed, not an old wrinkly man whose like the same age as your dad, ever heard of a man named hugh heffiner, yah thats what hes trying to live up to right now.
yuck, old wrinkly ball,s mmmm
but yah good luck with that

Answer 11

Hard to say if he would leave you. Depends on how you and he get along. It is a big age difference but it could work.
Parents might be a problem. They could be upset. Just make sure you want to be with him. Having a baby is NOT a reason to get married to anyone. Good luck