I found out that my ex has started dating someone else.
and she's head over heels in love with him. And she's telling everyone how cute "Paul as in her new boyfriend" brothers were on the phone. When they asked oh your pauls girlfriend ect. Then i messeged her and said a few things none of them were mean so don't worry. But then she tell's me, I don't have feelings for you anymore. it's just that we Fight way too much when we're together and after that I felt depressed and I just left. Then she messeges me and still wants to talk to eachother, and be friends..
And i just can't take it being friends with her now, I need time..
So if she talks to me tonight, What should I say?
2007-07-26 13:10:55 · 21 answers · asked by wouldntgetfar 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just be friends with her. If she loves you. You'll be together again.
2007-07-26 13:16:43 · answer #1 · answered by suga...honey honey 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Be honest with her and tell her that this is your feelings that she is messing with. At this time you feel hurt and that you need some time away from her since you feel that she, this girl, has moved on and still wants to be your friend. This girl is a player and she is messing with you. Tell her bye bye and move on. You have the right to stand up for your own feelingd and if she acts like she does not understand then keepmoving on,, because she does understand. You'll be wise to run from her. Good Luck to you! God Bless You!
2007-07-26 20:18:13 · answer #2 · answered by SecretUser 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her good luck and congratulations with her new found friend, and you should move on. You need to remember that she is an EX FOR A REASON. Don't go back visiting there, because things are not going to change. Move on
2007-07-26 20:22:09 · answer #3 · answered by pookster4262 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say dont anwser because its just going to hurt you more. The less time you talk to her the fastest you can get over her and move on with your life. You cant be friends with some one your in love with. It hurts to know that your love one has another guy. Trust me i've been there.
2007-07-26 20:41:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her you need some space to think ab out everything but tell her how you feel too! is paul going to be there as you have? weigh the pros and cons. like i said in alot of my answers "love can be confused with lust". it wont be the end of the world if your gf and paul breaks up later on and i will lay odds on that! bet on that?
2007-07-26 20:20:43 · answer #5 · answered by badboy11904 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can try n be friends but i promise you that you will only fall for her again n again. u will never get over her n u will be miserable for a long time. best thing to do is turn the other way, let it go n try to put the pieces back together.
2007-07-26 20:15:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you talk to her tonight be honest with her about how you feel
and try not to leave out any details.
also follow your hart and instincts on this one they will lead you on the rt path in making this decision and about deciding what to do later or if anything should come up always follow that advice.
2007-07-28 22:07:12 · answer #7 · answered by lisah99208 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that Paul's not sleeping in the middle.I know that's stupid..........it's that I hate the games that ex's play,she wants to have her cake and eat it too.
2007-07-26 20:26:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her you aren't interested in being friends, it's too hard. Sometimes it's just easier to be honest...
2007-07-26 20:15:42 · answer #9 · answered by mrskerlin 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just be honest and tell her how u feel,but be nice at the same time.she probably needs space too,but told u that to be nice.
2007-07-26 20:15:36 · answer #10 · answered by cutemel10 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That you need some time away from her and you'll call her when you're ready to talk
2007-07-26 20:15:06 · answer #11 · answered by PETEPUMA 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋