Women only answer please.?

Question

What is your ideal man.SEcond do you have deal breakers.THINGS that is a must for you in a relationship.

Answer 1

Cecil.. the ideal man is a man in all respects. He is willing to do alot of interior soul searching ..making sure he knows himself very very well and thinks about what is going to come out of his mouth before it makes it past the teeth.. a man is ideal when he has real virtues which he puts into practice everyday all day, with few slips... a man is ideal when his life proves he thinks in order and cares about others .. Thats my dad. An ideal man. He cares about everything but has ordered his life into certain priorities so he can keep it allstraight no matter what. He chose the ideal woman when he found my mother. Just remember to think before you act. Always. There is always a consequence for everything we do.

God bless you , Cecil.

Answer 2

I don't have an "ideal" but I've got a few deal breakers...
jealousy
possessive/controlling personality
a secret family
bad hygiene
bad work ethic
dishonesty... I know there's more but I'm short on time, and I think you get the idea.

Answer 3

My ideal man is one who makes me and our kids the first priority in his life.

Things that must be present in our relationship:
1. Trust -
2. Respect -
3. Love -

Answer 4

OMG. Let me tell you what I did. After a divorce and realized I am looking once more I created a rubric- such like what a teacher has to grade her students.
It started off as a joke but then I got into it. When I dated I catagorized each man scoring points.
My catagories were: (some of them)

Correct grammar
tolerates my kids and nice to them
Breathe
cleanliness'so on and so forth. What I could not tolerate were men who were so impressed with themselves and those who did that nose throat clearing thing like they were coughing out a lung.

The only man who actually passed it I didnt know what to do. He passed every catagory. SO what did I do? I actually married him.
If I could go back and change it now I would add:
Steady employment
Have money
(I thought that it would be shallow to put in a rubric).
Even though my husband works part time and has little money but gets by and I need to work, he treats me like gold.
Go for the rubric!

Answer 5

Ideal man - taller than me, attractive, pretty eyes, preferably involved in the music/entertainment industry.

Deal breakers - Cheating, lying, physical/mental abuse

Musts - Honesty, trust, loyalty, love

Answer 6

Well I like men who have a strong personality. I want him to be able to handle his money and his life on his own, who has confidence, and who is a goal oriented man. I like someone who shares my interests, makes me feel safe and can connect on an emotional and a physical level. Also he needs to be honest, trust worthy and who listens well. Honesty is a must because I have had many many boyfriends who lie or cheat and God knows that hurts. I believe though that the most important trait besides honesty is a good sense of humor. If a man can make me laugh, hes got me hook, line and sinker.

Answer 7

My ideal man - someone who is honest and kind, who has a sense of humor and doesn't take life too seriously, someone who will stand beside me and treats me like an equal on all levels. There are deal breakers - dishonesty is a deal breaker - my husband tells me truth even when it will get him in trouble. I couldn't truly love someone who lied to me.

Answer 8

My ideal man would be solvent, funny and faithful. Deal breakers would be financial stupidity and infidelity. A must is trust. Doesn't that sound simple?

Answer 9

My ideal man is one with his **** together! He is a man of his word, responsible, honorable, intelligent, trustworthy, kind, sexy, exciting. He only has to be sexy and exciting to ME, not to the standards of other women. Affectionate, funny, learning and growing all the time he is excited about life and even more excited about ME. I absolutely positively must be able to depend on him... I need him to be a man of his word.

I mean dang, if I can't trust that you will take out the trash like you said you would, how am I supposed to believe that you would honor a commitment so important as marriage?

Dealbreakers: You are ugly. You are a drug addict. You are a drunk. You are a jailbird. You are a child molester or sex addict. You are abusive. You smoke. You think its okay to rob, cheat and steal. Your sexuality is questionable. You are impotent and we can't have sex. You are old and broken down. You are young and broken down. You are mean spirited and hateful. You are stupid. You don't like my family or they don't like you. You are foreign and I can't understand a word you say.

Answer 10

My only real requirement is that he has a job or has money to support himself. I don't need a man to do anything for me, but I would appreciate emotional support. Not many men are willing to that or even understand it. Other wise I am still searching for the ideal man.