there is this girl i really like. wen we first started talking we were REALLY close. then after about a week she resonded in like regular boring way like how she responds to other regular guys. she is beautiful and a lot of guys hit on her and i think shes falling for it and i really want her back. i want to do something or say to her that will make her love me again.
2007-07-26 10:31:46 · 8 answers · asked by quincy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
js in case the girl like me back and i liked her back but we wernt going out cause people might talk crap
2007-07-26 10:38:30 · update #1
well it seems to me like she has lost interest in you...all you can do is be yourself...dont try to be something your not...theres a lot of other girls out there!!!
2007-07-26 10:34:12 · answer #1 · answered by MiZz SaAk 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me and you have the same problem. If you really want to find out if she's genuinely interested in you. You may want try the ploy I'm now using on this women I like. Don't be pursuing her so much. Let her come to you. Just ignore her for awhile.
She'll starting thinking, how come so and so doesn't call me anymore etc. Because if she's really into you. She will come calling on you again.
Once she does call, then ask her what's up w/the other guys. If she's just doing the serial dating routine. Because she can, being beautiful and all like you say. Then you like me, are just being played, and are on the path to being hurt.
I know you want her back. But if she's not interested, then there's really not much you can say or do. For example, I sent 2 orders of very expensive flowers this beautiful girl. That I have been dating often. Now after she received my flowers, she was calling every other day for a week, saying how appreciative she was etc.etc. I figure this sealed the connection between us. But I was wrong and stupid.
On the 4th.of July,when I called her, she casually tells me, oh I'm not in town, I'm on a 2-day over nighter w/this socalled guy friend of hers from LA to Park City, Utah. A 5+hr. drive from her place in Las Vegas. To spend the July 4th holiday w/him up there etc. Now if that ain't a kick in balls, I don't what is. Love sucks eh !
2007-07-26 18:35:52 · answer #2 · answered by Puzzled 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she probably found a new guy, maybe she liked talking to you at first and maybe she even like talking to you on the whole, but when a girls finds someone they have a crush on the tend to forget about everyone else.never be the first person to say hi..it'll show if she really wants to talk to you.play hard to get...if its not working you should stop and just let her go cause if you were to try anything else she would just end up disliking you..and you don't want that.
2007-07-26 17:37:41 · answer #3 · answered by kimmy001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make her love you again... WHAT?
chances are she didn't love you in the first place.
Believe in the new doctor story.
A doctor graduated from school
bought a building and started his practice.
Everything was fine until one of his patients died.
Do you think that he took down the sign, locked the doors and decided to give up on becoming a successful doctor?
No, he went into the restroom and rinsed his face with cold water, put on a clean freshly starched white jacket, pushed the waiting room door open and said, "Next!"
Your front door is a waiting room...Next
Peace
2007-07-26 17:39:02 · answer #4 · answered by sissy4everyours 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Damn the same thing happened to me with a guy. It sucks! I really have no explanation. Maybe they got more intereested in someone else. What happened w/ us is we stopped talking as frequently so we kinda moved on. I would try just keeping in touch and turning on the charm ;-)
2007-07-26 17:36:01 · answer #5 · answered by Catmandu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love u again? Did she ever love u in the first place?
2007-07-26 17:34:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She might not have liked you to begin with, be bold tell her your feelings
2007-07-26 17:36:43 · answer #7 · answered by Greg 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
same situation dude. i just think we waited to long....
2007-07-26 17:34:38 · answer #8 · answered by pilotman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋