My best guy friend who happens to be my ex boyfriend I just told him that I still loved him. I'm not dating anyone and he isn't dating anyone either. Was that wrong of me to say that to him?
2007-07-26 10:18:37 · 18 answers · asked by raidergurl2008 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He came over on Saturday and we watch movies and we just sat next to each other talking about stuff only couples should talk about. He actually hugged me before he left.
2007-07-26 10:31:18 · update #1
There is nothing wrong about you opening to your feelings... Just remember that if he doesn't give any sort of hint that he likes you back, don't be discouraged. Now that you told him well he'll think more about you and might start to be interested again ;)
2007-07-26 10:28:56 · answer #1 · answered by jennpor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not wrong at all. Most times, ex-couples will always have feelings for each other, whether it's negative or positive. It's good to tell someone how you feel about them.
2007-07-26 17:23:03 · answer #2 · answered by spyder 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's not wrong of you to say that. Your just being honest with him and letting him know how you feel about him. If he doesn't feel the same way about you there is nothing you can do, but to try to get over him.
2007-07-26 17:22:31 · answer #3 · answered by lauraelena239 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
possibly but you will only know by hes reaction and also this happens alot with exes you have a little bit of space and realise you made a mistake in finishing it so why feel bad about the way you feel its only being honest
2007-07-26 17:23:55 · answer #4 · answered by magnum 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. It is not wrong. If you don't want to get back together it might have been a bad idea. What's the worst that can happen? Maybe he asks you out.
2007-07-26 17:26:04 · answer #5 · answered by Nels N 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. i love you has many different forms. you can say it to a family member, boyfriend, bestfriend, or even just a friend. if he acts uncomfortable about it, tell him that you didn't mean it like that. you meant it as a friend =) but don't regret it hun. you said how you felt. there's nothing wrong with that. xoxo.
2007-07-26 17:25:54 · answer #6 · answered by Taylor. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only mistake i see is that it appears that u r a raiders fan. other than that, no u didn't make a mistake. if that's how u feel u should tell him as u did. i think it's just wrong if u hide emotions from someone that u care about.
2007-07-26 17:24:58 · answer #7 · answered by john m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not wrong to still love him. It might be wrong to lead him on if you really don't want to pursue a relationship with him.
2007-07-26 17:21:29 · answer #8 · answered by holyterrar85 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. But do not expect any positive response.
It would be nice if that happens. Just don't expect it or you'll get disappointed if that didn't happen.
2007-07-26 17:22:39 · answer #9 · answered by smith 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, honesty is always the key. at least now you have a chance in getting back together with him. if you didn't tell him this then you'd always be wondering what would happen if you did.
good luck!
2007-07-26 17:22:33 · answer #10 · answered by kbeauty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋