My parents in their 70's- me in my 40's married and have daughter- 2 brothers in their 50's married, I have 3 nephews and 1 neice. I mow my parents grass, do moms hair weekly, groom their dog, run mom to doctors, etc.. Mom has a neurological disease and dad a heart condition. Brothers and family does NOTHING to help them AT ALL- I do everything- today dad drove to water one brother's yard and flowers- then ran to the other's to let their dog out because they are down the shore for a week. They take vacations all the time, live their life, meanwhile I bust my rump for them and today I told my mother it bugs the hell out of me that treat my brothers like royalty, and I am crap. Mom didn't answer me- I mentioned how in my family My parents always go to either brothers for holidays, we never get a holiday EVEN MY SISTER IN LAWS MOM GETS NEW YEARS! Mom said nothing- I am right, they treat me like crap then buy us stuff. Should I back off or what? I need a life and tired of being tired.
2007-07-26
10:09:25
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brandy2007
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I have been married 14 yrs- we have a beautiful home- why don't we get at least a holiday at our house- by the way I have not spoken to my brothers and family for years- one brother didn't even come to our wedding- no reason, i did not make them upset, or have any words, suddenly after refusing to borrow my sister in laws size XXXX dress because i was a size 8, she refused to go and demanded my brother not to go-
My family is so twisted- maybe part of me is jealous that my brothers can live their lives selfishly and free- while I take care of my parents, daughter, home, dog, husband, etc.. etc.. My husband tells me to stop doing things for my parents, that they treat me like crap- I want to stop doing moms hair too, tired of doing it every week but because of her condition it is hard for her to get out, lay back, etc.. I would move away but we just fixed our house up- and cannot afford it.
2007-07-26
10:19:06 ·
update #1