I really like him and he tells me he loves me and Im beautiful, but only when he is drinking...I want to tell him I want to have a relationship but Im nervous of how he will respond, what should i do!??
2007-07-26 10:07:50 · 5 answers · asked by ohbrytnie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Talk with him when he's not drinking. Flat out ask him if he wants to have a real relationship with you.Tell him your feelings for him and that you want to know what he feels too. The only way to know is if you ask.
2007-07-26 10:13:00 · answer #1 · answered by criesunjust 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh...boy.....i guess that's the only time you want to hear that your beautiful?
Personal experience....don't bother telling him. If he doesn't have the courage to tell you when he's sober, then.....why?
I'd hold off for awhile, stand outside the box and look in, then you'll see all that you need to see. You deserve someone special, who's kind, and will appreciate what you have to offer in the matters of the heart. Be honest with yourself, and take a good long hard look. Good Luck
2007-07-26 17:19:51 · answer #2 · answered by Pixie48 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if this has been going on for a year and you're not in a relationship, then chances are it's not going to happen. you need to flat out ask him where this relationship is going. if he says that he wants to continue things the way they are, tell him it's not enough, you want more. he'll either walk or reconsider. if he walks, then you know he doesn't really love you and he was only with you because you probably always gave him what he wanted. if that's the case and you truly want more, then make him work for it and be true to his words. good luck!
2007-07-26 17:21:48 · answer #3 · answered by luv 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ask him does he love u when he is not drunk. and see what he say. ask him what he think about u and ur relationship...
2007-07-26 17:11:50 · answer #4 · answered by Sagar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him when he is sober and be very forceful
2007-07-26 17:15:09 · answer #5 · answered by Greg 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋