Should I get a boob job?

Question

My boobs are very small. size AA to AAA. They basically stop growing since I was 10. The thing is I never really care about my boobs until I get older. I'm now 18 and have a bf. My bf doesn't complain about my boobs size, but I can see that he really like girls with big boobs because he watches porn and those girls all have big breasts. But he told me that he doesn't like fake boobs...I think that he lied and he might like it once I get bigger boobs. I think it kinda bugs him somehow in bed too and knowing that, it bugs me too. My bf has bigger boobs than me!!! lol

Also, whenever I go out, I wear bra that is bigger than my breasts. the bra is cup A but its bigger than my breasts! and it makes me look like i have boobs a little. so it's fake anyway, I just think why don't I just get a boob job so I don't need to wear unfitted bra, you know.

I'm just wondering what people think if I say I have cup AA, do you think it's reasonable to get a boob job?

Answer 1

dont get one. ur fine jus the way u are. ur natural beauty is best. plus porn is not a good way to look at girls anyway. sure the got big boobs but thats not really realistic. theres a reason y ther in porn. its jus a fantasy. ur fine jus the way u r. plus if ur bf is only goin out wti u for ur boobs i dont think thats a good relationship anyway. maybe u should trust him wen he says he doesnt care. if he actually does care only for ur boobs then i think u should find someone else

Answer 2

Please please PLEASE do NOT get a boob job!!! Small breasts are in their own way just as sexy as large ones. In many ways they are sexier. Just imagine the sexier clothes you can wear without having to worry about any bra at all or having large breasts pop out. A natural woman is by far the sexier creature, so much more so than a pretentious, fake, unconfident woman who has to pretend that she is more than she really is.

If your bf loves you and he is a good man, your breast size will not have any effect good or bad with how he loves you. Sure, looking at porn and imagining something different is fun, but when push comes to shove, if he loves you for what you are, that is all that matters. Personally, I love my wife's small breasts and would never ever encourage her to enhance them. She is perfect just as she is, and it sounds like you are too! Enjoy your body as it is, and everyone else will too.

Take good care!

Answer 3

Dont do it. If your boyfriend likes you that way, dont change a thing. I personally love girls that are totally natural. Plus dont expect to have big boobs like them porno girls. Since you have naturally smaller breasts, you dont have enough fat & room to be get double D's or something. You may be able to get a full B or something. If you really want to do it, consult a plastic surgeon and they can give you a good idea on how they would look like afterwards

Answer 4

Sure! Don't let anyone put you down with any "accept yourself the way you are" and "beauty is only skin deep" crap.

That all may be true; but if you feel a nip or a tuck would help your self-esteem and help give you a new lease on life, don't let anyone talk you out of it.

The best are the new silicone gel implants called "gummy bear" implants. If you cut them in half, they wouldn't leak. They can't leak. You have to do some homework and squeeze your way into a study, but only the best and the brightest are doing them, and it's the newest and best thing around.

I'm not a "boob" guy, but my wife was just like you and was way tired of it. She got gummy bears, and she's deliriously happy with them.

Answer 5

Sheesh, what strange answers.
Yes, it's reasonable to get a boob job. Let's face it, breasts are a sign of femininity, and it's not just that you wish that they were porn-star sized instead of average, you have no chest whatsoever and you want to be sort of like other women. Now, if you're comfortable with your chest, then don't do it. Don't worry about your BF and the porn-- those women are fake in every way, and guys absolutely 100% realize that. But if you're uncomfortable with being chest-less, hate the hassle of having fitted bras (although I would think you'd never need to wear one), etc., then there's nothing wrong with enhancement -- even just to a A or small B.

But, as others have said, this should be for you and not for your BF.

But the comments are crazy:
"screw up God's design, it's like saying "sorry, God, but u did a bad job." "

What about braces? Make-up? hair dye? Haircuts! We all like to alter our appearance either in a minor way or in a major way. Not a valid argument.

"If your bf really loves you, he won't care."
Of course he'll care! If your BF really loves you, would he care if you never showered, if your teeth were falling out... if you shaved your head??? Probably. Now, would it make him stop loving you? It shouldn't. But people have preferences; you can't fault them for that.

You seem like a decent candidate for breast enhancement. If it's somethign you want to do for you, I'd get a consult.
Good luck-- be happy!

Answer 6

Personally, fake boobs are very unattractive to me. Yes they may be nice for your boyfriend to look at but if he doesn't like fake boobs, that means that he won't like the way that they feel. So you shouldn't get them. He won't want to play with them anymore if you have big fake ones. Plus, you shouldn't get something to make one person happy because he might not be the person that you spend the rest of your life with. Only do things that will make yourself happy but I am a "no" vote on the fake boobs.

Answer 7

I have fake boobs & love them! Never hurts to go get a free consult with a plastic surgeon. The surgeon can tell you wether or not you're a candidate and exactly how big you can go and what would look most natural fr your proportions.

Also, if your b/f really loves you, your fake boobs are not gonna be an issue, you know. Especially if he does watch porn... c'mon you know every one of those girls have fake boobs :-)

Answer 8

Dont waist your money, time and pain by doing this! If he told you its not a problem then try and believe him he loves you for your heart and who you are. Here is the kicker everyone that knows you likes you for who you are, if you go and get something like this done you will inaffect tell everyone that Im insecure and fake. Think about this for a long time before you make the mistake of following through with this.

Answer 9

i think it's totally ok to get a boob job if you're insecure about your size. but don't get them for anybody else, because it's your body and you should do it only if you want to. i think you're bf will like them when he sees them, he was just making you feel better. if they make you more confident about yourself, go for it. don't let anybody else judge you because of it either. if you don't like the size that you get, you can always have them reduced. but don't go crazy and end up like dolly parton. hope this helped you. just for the record i had small boobs too, and had them enlarged. it is soooo much better in the bedroom since then. i woulnd't go any higher than a C cup on your first enlargement.

Answer 10

It all depends on you and how you feel if you want them and think that you are ready then get them...If you want then just to satisfy your boyfriend then dont get them...If you are gonna get them make them look naturally dont get a size too big for your body and one that people can tell are not yours...Maybe a full B will be good for or a C but do not go any bigger than that...Good Luck