okay theres the guy who i like so very much.He calls me every day about 9:00pm..Last night we talked and he started talkin about me and made me highly upset and i told him to stop.. he called me tobey,he called me a hoe which im not, he called me fat and so much other things. and it amde me mad so whaat should i do should i talk to him about what he has done or should i punish him by not pickin up the phone for a while...and if u think i should talk to him what should i say to him to the point were it won't sound geeky....Yahoo..Answers i need your help...he mad me cry all night last night he made me wonder how he really thinks of me he told me that i will never have a boy friend....so yahoo what should i do i mean i really like this boy.....
2007-07-26 09:22:39 · 23 answers · asked by unknown 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The last conversation you should EVER have with this guy, is the one where you tell him to leave you alone, and NEVER to call you again. Personally, any guy who calls a girl a whore, is fat, and makes multiple degrading comments is absolutely worthless. Any decent self respecting guy, would NEVER speak to a girl like that. I would loose any feelings I had for him immediately, other than disgust. Do not lower yourself to remain in contact with anyone who is verbally abusive to you. I don't know why he said what he did, but do not listen to any excuse he might try and hand you. Do not shed 1 more tear over someone that repulsive. Find a nice, caring guy who will treat you with respect, not humiliation.
2007-07-26 09:38:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
i really dont know but ill tell you this , chicks say shi to guys but when its the other way around , i dunno its relationship stuff , do u even have a relationship with him? if u like him that much , then c'est la vie , but if u go on being his slave maybe someday he'll be like one of those wifebeating types , maybe you should forget about this guy , but then i know thats the last thing you'll do , so just know this u dont really get love , it comes it goes , it has its own life , to cry all night is just mental its not like someone died, hey if yr a pretty girl and someone calls u fugly does it make it true ?
2007-07-26 16:32:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you ever even think of answering the phone let alone talk to him ever again, if he said that he is no longere a part of your world, if you have a weird situation like he is in your school or work then you must just cope and move on, with limited contact, but I wouldn't ever answer his phone calls again. FU CK HIM
2007-07-26 16:27:59 · answer #3 · answered by J from O 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give up on him, he's not worth your time. But if you really like you should talk to him about what he said. Tell him how he made you cry. And if he dosen't say sorry or anything like that, give up on him. Get busy with ur friends and family and have fun and u'll be amazed how fast wounds heal.
2007-07-26 16:30:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the best answer is, move on he is no friend a friend is with you through thick and thin, in good times, bad times and happy times. Whats more important his friendship or your peace of mind. Could you imagine if you were dating each other, a disaster.
2007-07-26 16:31:02 · answer #5 · answered by arlene h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he made you cry all night and you are still wondering if you should pick up the phone when he calls.. I say sure pick it up one last time and tell him to get lost! Any man who likes you will not call you names or put you down to make himself feel better... dump him he sounds like a creep! if you need the words to say...... GET LOST CREEP I DONT NEED YOU DONT CALL ME AGAIN is getting your point across plain and simple.......
2007-07-26 16:33:01 · answer #6 · answered by Lynn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh No!!! Don't You EVER answer his phone call again!!! He's a JERK! Even if he appologizes and you two make up he'll probably do it again since he's already done it once. You should erase his # from your phone! Immediately!
2007-07-26 16:26:54 · answer #7 · answered by Mishee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get as far as you can away from him....
he has no respect for you and without that, there is NO CHANCE of a healthy relationship...
if you like drama or being hurt, Go for it!
If you have more self respect than that, let him go for good!!!
2007-07-26 16:27:28 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do you like him? it sounds like he obviously has no respect for you. even if he's joking, he should have enough sense not to do that. im thinking that he feels insecure and is trying to make himself feel better by putting you down. i would think twice about this dude and ignore his calls. you deserve a REAL guy.
2007-07-26 16:28:28 · answer #9 · answered by knight of cydonia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He seems like a total jerk.. just move on.. tell him not to call you.. and if he still does, just don't answer or you might wanna change your phone number! there are better guys out there!
2007-07-26 16:27:01 · answer #10 · answered by ALAC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋