im in love with him, and he supposedly isnt. i WANT to get over him. any ways?
2007-07-26 09:18:58 · 4 answers · asked by lala55 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hey,
Just to let you know I am going through the same exact thing right now..except I was with my ex for a year and a half..and I am going through the whole depression stage to, In fact I have already lost about 20 lbs. and I don't know if thats a good thing or not..I just don't want to eat, I hate sleeping cuz I dream of him and what he did to me..and who he's with now and what he's doing..and it hurts. Believe me, I know what your feeling.
No one can really help you but yourself. All my friends have told me I don't deserve to be treated the way he treated me and how I am to good for him...and I will find somebody better. But if I am so good..then why isn't he with me? I ask myself that all the time.
But I just have to remember that I was good to him, and it was his loss. If you did nothing wrong and it was his stupidity..then he will realize it *hopefully* sooner or later. And if not..then he wasn't worth your time anyways. Be thankful it was only 7 months you know? What if you guys were married for 20 yrs and his true colors showed? Married with children even...it would be alot harder.
Just remember, you will find someone...and you walk with your head up. I know its hard, believe me I know now more than ever..and I am just now starting to realize all this. And we broke up a month ago. I wish you luck tho..and I hope everything works out for the best. And also, everything happens for a reason.
2007-07-26 09:31:45 · answer #1 · answered by Shae 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time is the healer for the love illness.Right now, you can't do nothing since the wound is fresh and you're still in love with guy and to make the matter worse, he dump you.As you can see,all the card are against you by the moment.Is a hard time and a sad one.Be strong,get some friends and little by little the wound will be healed 100 %.Not today, not tomorrow,but soon. Be patient and be strong at the same time.
2007-07-26 16:39:35 · answer #2 · answered by Mario Vinny D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make a list of every rotten thing he ever did to you, everything you didn't like about him, and all the things he did/said to hurt your feelings. When you start feeling mopey and depressed, wanting him back, and tempted to call - read and re-read that list.
Also, put a sticker on your phone that says "NO!" - so every time you pick up the phone and are tempted to call him, you will have to stop and think.
The best way to get over him, is to break off all contact with him, and get on with your life.
Fill the time that you would have been spending with him doing other activites. Join a gym, take a course for fun, adopt a pet (only if you can care for one), redecorate your house, reconnect with your girlfriends. Write letters to your grandma/aunt. Volunteer. Learn to cook. Do something to fill up your time and take your mind off of him.
Contrary to popular belief, rebounding will NOT help. It will just make you feel bad about yourself.
GOOD LUCK!
If you need any more moral support e-mail me at Joliharp@wildmail.com
Either all this, or you can just drink a ton of cheap whiskey! (joke - don't do that)
2007-07-26 16:27:56 · answer #3 · answered by HooliganGrrl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
come over to my place and ull get over him real quick.
2007-07-26 16:27:15 · answer #4 · answered by odoyle rules 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋