I know this beautiful women and i really want to ask her out but if she said yes where would i take her?if she said no how would i stop getting embarresed and feeling rejected?
2007-07-26 09:06:13 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok this is coming from a beautiful woman so listen up. Before you ask her out make sure you are confident in yourself. So what if she says no? At least you had the confidence to ask her out. Where should you take her? Depends on what she likes. Maybe a fancy resteraunt? Or maybe even going to the beach with a group of friends?It all depends on what she likes to do. Do you want your first date to be alone or with other people too? If your going to ask her out don't have it in your head that she's going to say no. Because who know's? :) remember just be confident because every girl likes a guy who belives in himself:)
2007-07-26 09:26:18 · answer #1 · answered by sugar-sweet 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most women like a man who can get straight to the point with no BS. If you want to ask this woman out, appear confident. Start a simple conversation by asking her how her day is going. Ask her what she has planned over the weekend and once she answers, tell her that you were wondering if she'd be interested in joining you for dinner on Friday or Saturday night. Tell her that you would like to pick her up (if she agrees!). To keep the mood light and not too forced, I would ask her if she would like to have a drink after dinner or maybe go see a movie or bowling. You want to do something that will make her want to see you again without appearing like youre trying too hard. All in all, BE CONFIDENT! You will do no wrong this way.
2007-07-26 09:15:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beauty isn't a factor. The opening that worked for me repeatedly is; "Hi there." With a big smile and a pause. That gives you a second to soak up their mood. If she smiles back or makes some eye contact it's time to ask; "Say, you wanna go out with me for___ on Friday night? Just you and me. My treat? I'll pick you up at ___." That will give you the best odds. You can do that three-four times before it's offensive, sometimes it will take that many tries. What do you have to lose? Your not getting her without asking.
ps- I real serious ladies man will pick up 1/10 of the women he asks out. And only 1/10 of those will "pan out". The secret is asking 50-60 women.
2007-07-26 09:13:17 · answer #3 · answered by Tim 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's the risk you take as a guy in a world full of beautiful women. Just remember that there is no victory without risk. So ask her out and if she says yes take her to an art exhibit something that will turn the wheels in her head about you. If you get turned down just think of it as a glass half full kind of thing. Maybe you'll get the chance to date someone better.
2007-07-26 09:13:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well don't write her a letter until you get a spell checker.
Depending on the circumstances, you may find that she doesn't have many dates (the best looking girl in my college freshman year sat home on Saturdays because everyone assumed she was busy dating.)
It seems to me that what you have to do is talk to her to find out if she is pleasant as well as beautiful and continue the process by inviting her to something simple and casual like lunch or coffee/snack after work or what ever you share. If she accepts, then she doesn't totally reject you and you can find out what she likes. Later, having researched what is available, if you don't already know, you can approach her with "we were talking about ... and there is a .... coming up, would you go with me?"
Or were you planning on showing her off as a trophy?
2007-07-26 09:13:47 · answer #5 · answered by Mike1942f 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beautiful girls are all I date, don't be nervous and be as confident as u can then ask her out if she says yes then there u go if she says no then at least u won't be thinking all of your life what would she have said if I had asked her out. Good Luck
2007-07-26 09:10:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Same way you ask any other woman out...and take her to wherever you like to take women on dates. Her being exceptionally attractive to you shouldn't have any bearing on how you behave toward her...she's still just a person.
If she says no, thank her for her time, and move on. No big deal...you've lost nothing. No reason to be embarrassed. Not everyone we like is going to like us back...that's just a fact of life. Ya accept it and move on with a positive attitude.
2007-07-26 09:09:34 · answer #7 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beautiful woman or not, you can treat them just like any other girl. Take her to any place you would take a non-beautiful woman. You can't escape being embarrased or rejected if you try, but not trying at all is worse. Regret can tear you apart, but embarasment passes.
2007-07-26 09:10:00 · answer #8 · answered by Dorphinoct 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well there are only too choices.
ask her or not.
if u wont ask her then u might regret it for the rest of ur life. take a chance
if she will say no at least u will know that its not meant to be.
dont wait. stop being scared. go up to her and ask her.
since we dont know where we are we cant tell u where to go.
may be for a nice meal and a nice walk. go to the park or by the water.
its summer. use ur imagination.
good luck.
let us know how it went.
2007-07-26 09:11:21 · answer #9 · answered by Vicky Z 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just walk up to her and ask her. The lady will probably like that fact that you have the confidence to do this. If you get rejected, who cares it is her loss, you know that you're a great guy and if she doesn't realize it then she doesn't deserve your company.
2007-07-26 09:13:43 · answer #10 · answered by ckcool192000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋