I'm in my 20's not a bad lookin guy either. I'm still innocent by choice. I'm beginning to worry though the ship has sailed for me finding the same in someone. Is this a good or bad thing that I waited?
2007-07-26 08:04:44 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would love to find the same innocence in my dream girl, even if i have to look for one a bit younger. If not a virgin, at least she should be innocent and have a lot to learn with me.
2007-07-26 08:09:50 · update #1
my e-mail is always open if you want to say more.
2007-07-26 08:17:00 · update #2
Its a good thing...really. dont start to worry b/c your doing the right thing. i myself have done the same and believe me i dont regret it one bit. why go out and sleep w/ someone and have the chance that there not the one for you. then you get all emotional and it hurts even worse...but the best thing about waiting is that you get to share it with your wife THE ONLY ONE. and that makes a women feel really special to know that you were waiting for her even though you didnt know her yet...so yes good job...and keep it up ya'll find each other one day and it'll be more appreciated ...dont worry ok
you should be proud b/c not alot of pep wait...
2007-07-26 08:10:14 · answer #1 · answered by Dan The Man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's not bad but don't u worry if u may find your girl of your dreams at age of 40 or 50?Just don't wait the girl of your dreams or the "innocent girl" to have sex with,find the right girl meaning the one who had already an experience and can teach u without laughing at u because you're a virgo,u feel me?If u find her just do it!I'm a girl,20 years old and virgin too and am proud!But it's not the same thing to be a virgin and a virgo,guys should lose their virginity earlier than a girl cause u know..men are men and they should teach women not women teach them..but anyway it's not bad if both happen though..
2007-07-26 08:35:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not a bad thing that you have waited but you can't expect potential mates to have waited too. You may find another virgin, you may not. It shouldn't be the be all and end all when sussing out potential girlfriends cause you can miss out on a lot of great women who didn't make the same choice as you.
Good luck.
2007-07-26 08:09:34 · answer #3 · answered by Morley 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't feel ashamed for who you are and your choice to remain a virgin. I stayed a virgin by choice until I was 27. I got teades a lot but when I dtaed guys and they knew I wouldnt give it up to them..they left. So I knew they weren't the right one for me. You will find that special someone out there and if she loves you she will not crae that you are still "innocent" I'm sure there are women out there who are virgins as well. In this day and age its better to wait till you are with someone you love. :)
2007-07-26 08:10:35 · answer #4 · answered by Jannie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone makes such a big deal about having sex. Really, think about it as making love. Don't wait for marriage, but don't throw it around either. Wait for the special person, she will be worth the wait. And if she's not a virgin when you get her, is she any less special? She may have made a mistake, thought she found the right person, but really didn't. If she loves you, that's what matters. And if you love each other? It will be beautiful.
2007-07-26 08:09:59 · answer #5 · answered by i wish i knew 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When, where and with whom ur choice. Physical virginity is not all that important and no guarantee of a committed disease free partner either. Also, some people get raped. Think ur sister, bestfriend, favorite classmate, etc. Think in general! Is anyone u luv less desirable by not being a virgin?
The state of ur transient physical body has nothing to do w/love, friendship, interests, or compatability.
2007-07-26 08:19:10 · answer #6 · answered by Tricia3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a very good thing and you should be very happy with your choice to remain a virgin. I suggest that you stay that way until marriage. However, it might be hard to find someone that is virgin these days but it's not impossible. I really do hope that you find what your looking for. Good luck.
2007-07-26 08:09:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's AWESOME! don't even worry about it. Wait for your wife! She will be ssoo glad and feel so special:) My hubby was a 100% virgin when we met - never even been kissed - and I LOVE it! I never have to worry about being compared to past lovers, I never feel like I've had to share him with another woman, and even though I don't consider myself all that attractive, I feel very confident knowing I can thrill him in ways that no other woman ever has!:) So yeah...your wife will LOVE it if you stay innocent:)
2007-07-26 08:15:38 · answer #8 · answered by HollywoodHousewife♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not a good thing or a bad thing. It just is what it is. So you haven't banged any chicks. So what? I've had lots of sex in my life, and I do admit that it's fun. But plenty of other things are fun, too. Rollercoasters are fun. Sleeping in is fun. Watching TV is fun. Etc etc.
While I enjoy sex, sometimes I stop and think that even though it feels good, is it really all that meaningful? I conclude that it isn't, in the grand scheme of things.
Love Jack
2007-07-26 08:12:41 · answer #9 · answered by Jack 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's to be ashamed about? If your looking for a girl look in the churches, the Catholic society for young men and women from our church has socials all the time for young people to meet. There are other places besides bars and low haunts like that. Who wants a girl that hangs out in a bar anyway?
2007-07-26 08:09:21 · answer #10 · answered by cowboydoc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋