Hey,
Im 20 and started seeing a 28 year old who is an amazing guy, Im crazy about him already. Anyways, He is already a little freaked out by our age difference but is getting over it. Im a virgin, but not the type who is waiting for marriage... plus I wouldnt make him wait forever for me. I just want to be in love and for my first time to be special... Is this going to totally freak him out? What are the chances of him hitting the road pretty quick ?
2007-07-26 08:01:42 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
believe me he won,t hit the road till he gets your virginity then he might men are dogs like that
2007-07-26 08:05:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is too old for you for one thing, and why aren't you waiting for marriage? The chances of him hitting the road pretty quick after having sex are very high. Why should he stick around? The person who is going to be totally freaked out will be you when he dumps you after you give him your virginity. Don't let his act of being freaked out over your age fool you. It's a huge boost to his ego to have someone as young as you. Better watch it kiddo, you are playing with fire.
2007-07-26 08:14:35 · answer #2 · answered by Maggie May 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello,
No I don't think it'll freak him out. If anything he'll look at it like a challenge. Knowing that you're a virgin puts him in a position to want to try harder. It'll always be in the back of his mind will I be the one to take her virginity. What can I do to entice this woman to let me be the one. Don't let him sell you any pipe dreams to attain his goal. Or if he's the type that has commitment phobia he might be a little hesistant to take it to another level due to the fact if "its" good to you, you might get addicted or (whipped) and he might not want to deal with you being clingy or super attached. Not saying you're that type of person. Just knowing that good sex can make you do things you normally wouldn't do!!!
2007-07-26 08:44:36 · answer #3 · answered by t-shawna 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I think he will probably love the idea of having sex with a virgin. I seriously wouldn't worry about it. Tell him to quit freaking out about the age difference. I am 40 and my gf is 21. I think if you love someone, age shouldn't matter.
2007-07-26 08:09:08 · answer #4 · answered by dino 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should be damn proud of urself
an if he likes u the way he thinks
he should be proud of u too
savin ur virginity if off the hook
an your 20 thats real good
it shouldnt freak him out
it should show him ur not a out there type girl
an that should give him a extra boost of trust that u wont go have sex with anotha dude
wow thats good ur still a virgin
2007-07-26 08:06:20 · answer #5 · answered by Mercaydes M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweety, don't worry. Sexual experience has ZERO to do with a relationship. If it's worth while, things will work out on their own. But, don't keep him totally in the dark. Tell him that you're a virgin if you really are ready to take your relationship to that level.
2007-07-26 08:11:31 · answer #6 · answered by Shel K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If anything, I'll think he will appreciate it. Plus you won't be a virgin the second time round :)
Good luck hunni.
2007-07-26 08:05:54 · answer #7 · answered by Miss Revenge 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He won't hit the road until after he pops the cherry, if he does hit the road.
2007-07-26 08:05:40 · answer #8 · answered by boston_based_guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will only freak him out if you are a virgin and also have children.
2007-07-26 08:07:13 · answer #9 · answered by lunatic 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It won't freak a mature guy out, if a guy loves you it won't matter either way.
2007-07-26 08:04:58 · answer #10 · answered by Darling-one 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋