mine went to plan and it was a nice day but i spent so long getting very nervous about it, didnt eat for 3 days, cried at everything. i was so glad when it was over!! i didnt enjoy it as much as evryone else did.
2007-07-26 07:24:54 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
kyasmomma..dont read anymore!! sure youll have a beautifull day!=)
2007-07-26 07:48:55 · update #1
Mine was awful. I was young, and my now husband was in the Marines, so I planned the entire thign myself. I am not close to my parents, so they had very little to do with the event. My husband's mother was no help. She just seemed to look down on everything, for example- I went (myself) to pick out and order the cake. I was really happy and exited about it, so I took her down to show her, and the first thing she said was "you're going to have the colors changed right?"
I also spent the entire day before setting up the reception hall completely by myself. Setting up and decorating tables, chairs, ect. I was the only person in the whole room, everyone else was off having fun. Then my husband had the nerve to call and tell me to hurry up and come over. Everyone is visiting with the out of town relitives! The rehersal itself was fine, except one of the bridesmaids was sick in the hospital.
Day of the wedding, the sylist went over time on my hair and made me late for getting ready. The flowers did not turn out like I had wanted. My son, 14months old at the time, was going to walk me down the isle, but he didn't get a nap, so he refused to walk with me and I walked myself. No one videotaped.
The reception was bad. the dj sucked, so no one danced. The cake was perfect, just like I had pictured. It was even better when my husband shoved it in my eye! It was bad enough that my husband and I left after just about 2 hours. We were both miserable.
2007-07-26 08:02:44 · answer #1 · answered by goukermj 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I was miserable and had a terrible time. I even hate looking at the pictures. I lost 10 pounds a week before the wedding due to nerves and my dress was just hanging on me. The day flew by and I remember being so tired of walking around the reception greeting guests. We had 135 people and by the time we said hello to all of them it was time to cut the cake and the night was almost over. I didn't dance or enjoy a minute of it. Nothing big went wrong but overall I will always be sad about it. I was the first of my friends to get married so I had no real idea what I was doing and had nothing to compare it to. Having been to more weddings now I would have chosen a lot of different things.
2007-07-26 14:32:08 · answer #2 · answered by Luv2Answer 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
...Had a few problems before the wedding, but nothing too bad. It was good, but I wish I had more time to enjoy it. I was late getting to the church because of making last minute adjustments at the reception hall. While I was getting my makeup done, everyone wanted to come in and say how beautiful I looked and good luck, etc. I was grateful, but I was like my goodness, you are at a wedding, you will see me come out in a lil' while. The decorators forgot my ring bearer's pillow, so we put something together and it actually turned out nice. At the reception the photographer wanted pictures here and there, and so did alot of people at the wedding. Family that came a long way wanted to talk, kiss, and hug me 30 times. I probably was able to sit down five minutes and enjoy 3 meatballs. My husband never did sit down. When we made it to the hotel suite, there was another couple in our room, so we ended up getting that night free. But everything else turned out fine...minor issues, nothing to make me kill anyone, lol.
2007-07-27 00:04:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I did not enjoy mine either. I had a horrible headache half an hour before the ceremony, I was left alone in the room we used to get ready for the 15 minutes right before except for the wedding coordinator coming in to make sure I was ready to go. I have a fake smile in every single posed picture and I do not remember a happy day when I look at them.
2007-07-26 14:42:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I hated my wedding which was about 18 months ago. My parents wanted me to get married before I had my baby.... which we already had one but either way I was 8 months pregnant and I got wedding dress for $100 dollars and my sister was the bridesmaid and her dress cost 5 times of what I paid. It was nothing like what I wanted. I love my husband and we were engaged for 2 years. So I am planning on having a renewal thing when its been 5 years and I am planning this one so it will be just how I wanted.
2007-07-26 14:30:51 · answer #5 · answered by crazy_cat_lady 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The wedding that I attended last weekend, it was very tense. Everyone involved was tired from the endless rehearsal, setting, order barking, pictures etc. The bride and groom were at each other's throat for weeks before the wedding and were stressed from the most miniscule and obsessive details.
Everyone cried at the wedding and the only one making it a party were the bums at the open bar (me included). It seems like it was my party because it was only me the one having fun. The head table looked that they were falling a sleep, the bride and groom had dark circles on their eyes and look exhausted, bored, and stressed.
At the end of the party, the bride told me that she felt guilty not to be able to spend time with anyone and that she just wanted to crash in bed. She looked miserable.
For all brides, make your wedding a party and not a nightmare for you , your fiance and your guests. It's about the love and not the centerpieces.
Good luck
2007-07-26 14:32:54 · answer #6 · answered by Blunt 7 · 9⤊ 0⤋
Mine has not come yet I'll be married on August 4th this year .. and I already know that it is not going to be a good day ... all of my family around me is fighting and no one is happy with this and that ... so i am already anticipating a shitty wedding day!!
Sad really cause while planning this wedding i realized its not for the bride and groom ... its for everyone else!!
Run away and elope people its the only way
2007-07-26 14:53:56 · answer #7 · answered by Stephanie 3 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Well I have to say I didn't... some people didn't show that said they would, disapointment there... The air conditioner didn't work correctly and messed up the colors on my cake. Some people shoe polished my car ON THE FREAKIN PAINT and when we tried to wash it off it ruined the paint plus we got all messed up in the process.... and to top it off we divorced 1 1/2 yrs later. sucky wedding. wished I could have saved the money and eloped and spent it on my second husband (we've been together 12 years now) instead of eloping lol.
2007-07-26 14:29:57 · answer #8 · answered by starlight 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
My sister!! She was so stressed out, none of us could calm her down, and she started throwing things, and I had to run after her when she decided that she couldn't take the pressure (I have a really big family) and drag her back to the hall...
It was like a bad movie about scary weddings LOL
After it was over, she cried in relief, and she booked it out of the reception as soon as it was cool to do so...
2007-07-26 18:16:10 · answer #9 · answered by xylina_69 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I know my cousin didn't enjoy hers--she and her new hubby
got into a huge fight at the reception cuz he got drunk with his
buddies and he pushed her dad (who has had 2 heart attacks) backwards over one of the food tables, so her
brother got into it and it turned into a brawl. The cops were
called, a bunch of guys including the groom got arrested and
spent the night in jail, and my cousin spent the night crying and saying she wanted and annulment, I thought the whole
thing was pretty funny because she's such a spoiled bratty
princess to start with, so it was sort of like paybacks for
all her bad karma over the years...
2007-07-26 14:45:47 · answer #10 · answered by doodlebug 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋