Ok well last night I got a phone call from my ex- bf saying he wants to get back together. But here is the thing I already have a bf.He is so sweet and kind. My ex- left me cuz of he needed " space". But now Idk who to chose. I really really love my ex and my current bf is my best friends . SO plz help me chose!!!!!!!! Thanx!!!!!!!
2007-07-26 07:19:48 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
my current bf only wants to make out And I don't always want that. Now my ex -bf he didn't always do that (kissing) part but my current bf is a player. We were suppose to break -up b4 he goes to mexico in the begginging of august. my ex is a bit of a player.
2007-07-26 07:36:06 · update #1
You shouldn't even be stressing out over this situation. You stated in your description that you have a wonderful, loving boyfriend ... why throw that all away? You may think your "in-love" with your ex, but those could in fact be left over feelings because it all ended so quickly. I think it is pretty immature when a couple breaks up because they need "space", you need space tell your significant other that you would like to be alone for a day or two and that you will get in touch with them when you feel like talking. You and your ex didn't work out, there is no need to try it again. Break-ups happen for a reason, and their are not many ex's out there that got back together and actually lasted. Stay with your new man, he loves you and has respect for you... besides that if you have never considered breaking up with him before this situation then you guys are doing good and really like each other!
2007-07-26 07:30:13 · answer #1 · answered by Squeakers 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Someone can have "space" without completely stopping seeing you. They can cut back on how often they see you and still keep the relationship. If your current bf is also your best friend, then stick with him.
2007-07-26 14:28:34 · answer #2 · answered by Bill F 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I say you probably should keep your current relationship going.
If you break up with your current bf for your old one, your friendship will almost definitley be lost.
Keep your current relationship going, you have to tell your ex you have another boyfriend.
2007-07-26 14:24:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anthony C 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stay with your boyfriend and stop playing these silly games.
Edit: Did you know he was a player before you went out with him?
2nd Edit: OK, I actually read the whole thing this time. First off, you need to stop going out with players and find yourself a stable boyfriend. You stay with guys like that and your going to end up getting an STD.
2007-07-26 14:23:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ur gonna choose ur X who needed space. u know y cuz if u didnt already have it on ur mind to go bac to him this wouldnt even be a question or an issue to u cuz after all ur current bf is like ur best friend who doesnt require space and is so sweet and kind and unlike ur X bf who required the space in the first place!!!!!! but just remember he will require space again one day!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-07-26 14:27:58 · answer #5 · answered by sean a 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you need to stay with your current boyfriend because you never know your ex could want space again.
2007-07-26 14:23:15 · answer #6 · answered by Nellz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Think. BF1 left you because he needed his "space." By that he meant he wanted to play the field with other girls.
So now you have BF2 - who is sweet, kind, a great friend and prefers your company to someone else's.
What are you missing here? Brains?
Tell BF1 that he needs more space - so get lost.
2007-07-26 14:25:15 · answer #7 · answered by Barbara B 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
stay with your current bf. he sounds really great and if you got back together with your ex he might do the same thing again.
2007-07-26 14:23:46 · answer #8 · answered by hcogirl14 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
stick with your current boyfriend. the other one left you! so your current boyfriend already has something over the old one; commitment. don't break up with your boyfriend to get back with someone who left you; if you do that, he will think he as alot of power over your decisions, and it will make you look desperate.
2007-07-26 14:24:00 · answer #9 · answered by dollygirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
stay with your new bf he had his chance nad he didn't want it dont forget he left you and if you decide to take him back dont make it so easy for him. I really think that you should stay w/ your new bf.
2007-07-26 14:27:45 · answer #10 · answered by mesha w 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋