I have seen him out and about the past couple years,he always tried talking to me and I blew him off(i was still hooked on my x)well i saw him out a couple weeks ago and he looked adorable,he seemed into me at first,but then I ended up drinking too much and i think i looked stupid.So i found him on myspace the next day and sent him a message apologizing.he had no reply.so the next morning i messaged him again saying'you are suppose to accept my apology'he replied with'im pacing myself'and a smiley face.a few days went by and i sent him a message asking him to add me on his freinds list,he did.a little over a week after i sent him a message telling him i know a friend of his and that I dont like him(his freind)he had no reply.I assume this is going no where and i need to give up on him?or wait? is he just not into me?what was 'pacing himself' meaning?
2007-07-26 07:07:23 · 13 answers · asked by kelly k 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Give it up. He's not interested in you, and he's not interested in your apology.
Pacing himself means he's not interested in girls who get trashed and send messages the next day, then demand people forgive them, then say they don't like a person's friends.
Stop with the messages already! You're looking like a fool.
2007-07-26 07:12:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally hate it when someone ignores you, I believe it is such a cowardly act... No one should be ignored and that's what this guy is doing. He should at least have the nerve of sending back a reply. I will admit that I have done this myself in the past, but I now have come to realize my mistake... Anyway, I suggest you find a way to see him in person and confront him. Be honest with him and tell him how you feel, it doesn't matter how embarassing it might be... if he says No, then you can move on with your life (trust me) but if he says Yes, then you can become a couple.
I wish you luck sweetheart! and please, don't drink! its bad for the liver!
2007-07-26 14:21:14 · answer #2 · answered by VortexHunter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you knew him much better than you do, you really can't read too much into this.
Maybe he's not so much into emailing. He might have just been trying to be funny with the pacing remark.
If you want an answer, you're likely going to have to engineer another "chance" encounter with him out and about. See if he'll engage in conversation.
Good luck!
2007-07-26 14:13:27 · answer #3 · answered by RH Arizona 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as Buddah says:
Do not believe in anything simply because you have heard it. Do not believe in anything simply because it is spoken and rumored by many. Do not believe in anything simply because it is found written in your religious books. Do not believe in anything merely on the authority of your teachers and elders. Do not believe in traditions because they have been handed down for many generations. But after observation and analysis, when you find that anything agrees with reason and is conducive to the good and benefit of one and all, then accept it and live up to it.
2007-07-26 14:10:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
pacing himself? maybe that's just his way of saying he likes being pursued by you. don't try so hard. it seems that people who seem a little indifferent cause us to try to hard to gain their affections. if you like this guy, if you haven't already, give him your phone number and let him make the next move. if you don't hear from him don't worry you will find someone else.
2007-07-26 14:17:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok... ummmm.. if i were you i wouldnt give up, i would give him so more time... maybe the next time you see him out and about, try to talk to him.... You have nothing to lose.
i have no clue as to what he means by that!!! my guess is that he means he isnt dating right now..... but that doesnt mean he cant get to know you right now.
2007-07-26 14:20:14 · answer #6 · answered by -->♥Kylie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it means ur trying too hard. relax. and go easy on the alcohol next time. u didnt have to apologize to him hes not your bf or anything. and if he cant accept ur apology than oh well u miss one bus u jump on the next you dont go chasing the same one. stop chasing him or hes gonna resent you!!!
2007-07-26 14:15:07 · answer #7 · answered by Tasha M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ease up on the messaging. you don't want to seem like you're too eager. if he doesn't reply, back off. if he likes you, he'll get back to you. whatever you do, don't sit by your phone or computer waiting for him.
2007-07-26 14:16:05 · answer #8 · answered by sodiums 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give up if heis in yu thrn he will reply yu at yurs first email yu ask him toomany time anytime he dosent reply to yu that means he have someone els in hise life he dont want yu in his life that what i think
2007-07-26 14:16:05 · answer #9 · answered by rameshp999 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why dont you just go ahead and ask him out and if he doesnt reply right away say jkjkjk
2007-07-26 14:12:33 · answer #10 · answered by paine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋