my grandma wanted me to go with my aunt and her to the lake but i didnt want to go so i said no, but i always go with her every where when no body want to go with her?
2007-07-26 06:38:45 · 10 answers · asked by <<<~ANG3L~>>> 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
It depends on how you said no. I hope you were nice about it, so they didn't feel rejected. Maybe you can plan on something to do with them you like.. another day.
I think you had the right to decide whether or not to go to the lake, nothing is worse then a sour mood with your relatives if you didn't want to be there in the first place.
I know how you feel right now you are feeling guilty for making the decision that was right for you, hurting their feelings,and you don't want anyone thinking bad about you.
Been there lots of times! Family is important sometimes you have to do things you don't want to, and sometimes you have to do what is best for you...nicely.
2007-07-26 06:49:03 · answer #1 · answered by In so many words 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing wrong with taking time to do things for yourself. sometimes we want to say "no" and it's not going to kill other people if we don't join them in their activities all of the time.
it's nice you spend time with your grandma -- but she will have to understand you need time for yourself, as well. i'm sure she does, too!
take care
2007-07-26 13:48:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
bring some friends with ya, and go with ur grandma, and ur aunt
2007-07-26 13:55:09 · answer #3 · answered by I_wuv_you! hehe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont mess with grandma shes always right
2007-07-26 13:53:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you won't miss those trips with your grandmother when she's dead. Come on what else important are you doing, playing on the computer?
2007-07-26 13:45:09 · answer #5 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with that....unless you yelled at her, but I doubt that....don't trip, I'm sure there will be many more times to join her for an outing...
2007-07-26 13:55:13 · answer #6 · answered by mindseye06 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u were tired and didnt want to go but if u didnt want to go at all then its wrong to me
2007-07-26 13:43:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should always spend some times with the family. its important and it should never be taken for granted
2007-07-26 13:40:57 · answer #8 · answered by ♥Addicted to Love♥ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell your grandma you have something to do!
2007-07-26 13:43:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
just let her know that you feel all right that someone else is with her.
2007-07-26 13:49:19 · answer #10 · answered by Amethyst 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋