2007-07-26 05:48:00 · 28 answers · asked by deeshae1 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just stand your ground and tell him NO...Period...I am glad you respect yourself enough to know that you do not want to go far...He should respect you the same.
2007-07-26 05:50:42 · answer #1 · answered by Marriedtothearmy 2 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Check it out. You need to do whatever makes you happy and if he cant support that you are young enough to get a new one. This is coming from a guy. Dont let him pressure you but dont lie either. Dont make up excuses because that is leading him on in the wrong way. Have talks about your feelings and maybe youll grow close enough together you will want to take it to the next level.
2007-07-26 13:05:12 · answer #2 · answered by the guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm thinking that going so far you mean doing the stuff girlfriend and boyfriend do. Well that's your choice but since you're in this relationship you should discuss with him how you want things to go .Like taking things one step at a time, and really wanting to wait till you're ready. Explain to him that you don't feel comfortable and you think that things are going too fast .Let him know that you're not breaking up with but you just want to take things slowly.
2007-07-26 13:04:14 · answer #3 · answered by elva f 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bravo for already knowing you don't want to go too far. You can tell him just like that - firm but nice and he will know that you respect yourself. Just say "Hey, I like you but I am definitely not ready to go any further."
Some guys will try to pull tricks (like the "but I love you!" one) but don't let anyone pressure you into doing something you don't want to. If a guy leaves because you don't want to do something then let him go.
Guys, this can apply to you as well! It's not only the guys that can put on the pressure!
2007-07-26 12:55:59 · answer #4 · answered by TimD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him.. Don't be scared to stand up for what you believe in. IF your not ready then be up front with him and let him now you want to wait. If he doesn't understand then he doesn't care about you and will leave you after you have sex anyway! There need to be more 16 year olds like you that have self respect and want to wait. Don't give in... You'll be glad you waited!
2007-07-26 12:54:34 · answer #5 · answered by Heather 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that you have to get up early the next morning to go to school and that you can only put 20 miles on your parents car.
2007-07-26 12:50:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him the truth - you don't want to go all the way. Tell him how far you are willing to go, even if it is just kissing. Don't allow yourself to be swayed by pressure from him or anyone. Good luck!
2007-07-26 12:54:46 · answer #7 · answered by K H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him clearly and firmly. Be resolute. If he doesn't like it, is he someone you want to be with long term? Don't issue any ultimatums unless you are fully prepared to follow up like you say you will.
It doesn't seem like it now, but there are hundreds of guys you will meet. Wait for the one who thinks you're worth waiting for.
2007-07-26 13:00:59 · answer #8 · answered by suz665 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be completely honest with him and your parents. Children don't believe that parents are understanding. Talk to you parents they will not steer you in the wrong way. Talk to your counselor at school, somebody that you think you can rely on. Don't do anything you DONT WANT TO.
2007-07-26 12:53:16 · answer #9 · answered by Misty D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
More toward the beginning of the date if possible, at the right time, of course. Maybe later, thought.
This will be your protection from the wrong sorts, who will flee from you.
2007-07-26 12:52:11 · answer #10 · answered by Joseph C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋