is it ok to go with him into a dinner date even im already engaged to marry to my boyfriend?
2007-07-26 05:19:06 · 11 answers · asked by kristal m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is OKAY to go for a dinner date especially if it is a friendship dinner date but it all depends on the situation that brings you and your date together. is it a hitting on you date? If yes ... I would say NO. Either way let your hubby to be know about it prior.
2007-07-26 05:29:06 · answer #1 · answered by sprinkler747 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no right or wrong answer for this question, the amount of time you've been together really has nothing to do with the marriage, usually tho you're with someone typically 2-3 years before engaged, but it just depends on the couple and how far emotionally and mentally your in the relationship. Don't let others convince you its too soon, if it feels right and you both are crazy for eachtoher go for it. I would suggest living together first tho! Good Luck!
2016-04-01 03:25:24 · answer #2 · answered by Evelyn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really is this a question? What would you say if the person being asked was your bf? and if he accepted?
1. if you truly love your bf the proper answer for a sate should be; Thank you, I am flattered, but I am also engaged to be married. So I cannot accept this dinner date
2. If you want to accept this dinner date because you like this guy more you should cancel the wedding now
2007-07-26 05:24:30 · answer #3 · answered by MissE 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, once you're engaged, you're officially monogamous and you're not ethically permitted to date ANYONE ever again, at least not in the romantic sense. You can have dinner as friends or coworkers or other non-romantic, non-sexual connections, but a "dinner date" implies a "date", and a "date" implies a romantic/sexual connection.
If you honestly weren't aware you'd have to stop dating, then you're not ready to get married.
2007-07-26 05:24:52 · answer #4 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kristal if your even suggesting that your considering going out with someone else just 4 months before walking down the aisle I recommend that you reconsider the whole marriage thing. Sounds like you may not be sold 100% on spending the rest of your natural days with your future husband.
2007-07-26 05:24:44 · answer #5 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it isnt unless u take ur soon to b hubby with u . and sounds like to me u should ask ur self are u ready for this step if u are un sure about going out with another man " Just for lunch" because if he asked both of u thats different dat u go if ur soon to b hubby said no hun u go i dont want to.
2007-07-26 05:26:38 · answer #6 · answered by sean a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you dumb? no. If you are going to marry this guy you are showing you are committed to him and only him. I tell you what, ask him. see what he says. and be prepared to give the ring back after you do.
2007-07-26 05:23:23 · answer #7 · answered by the need to know 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No it wouldnt be a good idea. Ask yourself this question what would you if it was the other way around?
2007-07-26 05:25:06 · answer #8 · answered by ♥Pixie♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I DONT THINK ITS A GOOD IDEA TO DO THAT. WHY WOULD YOU WANT TO PUT ANY DOUBT IN YOUR BOYFRIENDS HEAD ABOUT YOU. YOU WILL BE OPENING UP A CAN OD WORMS WITH HIM AND HE WONT TRUST YOU EVEN IF ITS JUST A FRIEND.
2007-07-26 05:23:30 · answer #9 · answered by ♥♥ LINDA ♥♥ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No it is not. That would be considered cheating. I can't believe you are asking that! You should know damn well that that is considered cheating.
2007-07-26 05:22:47 · answer #10 · answered by RedRabbit 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋