my dad took our dog, my brother ran away , my sister won't talk to anyone and she just keeps crying to and i think i might do something bad because i don't know what to do.
2007-07-26 04:37:43 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You need to sit down and write a country song, 'cause it sure is a shame about that dog.
(Hold off on your thumbs now folks - give 'er a chance)
But fer cryin' out loud don't hurt yourself. That would hurt.
And it wouldn't change anything. And you'd never get to live a great life from all the money you make from the country song you wrote and sent in.
Here's the point. Right now everything sounds awful, feels awful, is awful. But tomorrow it might not be.
Maybe you'll write that song. Or book. Hell, maybe you'll be the next 'murican Idol.
Maybe you'll be on your way to throw yourself in the river, and you miss that cute guy at the post office because you din't mail your new country song about your dog-gone, gone dog.
Things change. Stuff happens. Things change some more. It's called life, honey, and I know you're in pain right now.
But you might not be in pain tomorrow and wouldn't you feel a fool if you'd have offed yourself, but tomorrow was a great day; your brother decided to come back and the dog escaped the mean ol' dad an came pantin' up to the back door like he always does?
So don't do it. Sit down and write that country song - or a journal entry or call your Grammaw. Or call the crisis line where you live. I don't know where you live, or I'd look the damn thing up for you. 'Cause I'm that kinda guy.
And sometime, when it's darkest, you just gotta see some humor in the human condition. You gotta still be able to laugh. You gotta say, "Sheee hit, this sounds like a dad-gum country song I just pasted up there on that Yahoooooooo thing."
Boy am I glad they don't know my name. 'Cause after all that, I feel better now and I got all those folks all worried and upset.
So be sure ta write! And let us know about that song an how it did. i figure it should be about a B-sharp.
Love,
Duh
(Psst: not my real name)
2007-07-26 10:46:08 · answer #1 · answered by Duh 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hun dont do any thing to drastic please dont! I know that right now things may seem sooooooooooo ****** up that it would be easier to just quit but trust me life gets alot better I lived in and out of Foster homes I had a kid @ 15 life is never gonna be easy but It can be good I am only 24 now but things sre great and I had to struggle and fight for everything I have but trust me life is worth it jus hang in there.....your brother will call you your sister just needs some time she is going through alot to PLEASE talk to someone about how you feel go to someone who makes you feel safe if you want e-mail me jus dont do anything you cant take back!
The best advice I ever got is : When something terrible happens something that hurts so bad inside, Cry...cry all day today and all night tonight.....BUT, when tommorow comes wake up and facde the day new no more crying just action towards makin things better......I am praying for you right now and I will pray for your whole family. There are people who really do care what happens to you.
2007-07-26 11:59:34 · answer #2 · answered by LILLIE K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hurting anyone, yourself or someone else is never the answer....at least you have the brain about you to know and express the way you feel, witch means there is much, much hope!!!!
You need to find someone to talk to sweety....call a hot line or talk to your mom.....someone you feel safe with.
And just know that none of it is your fault and you don't need to be punished anymore than you have been by how much you hurt right now.
Sounds like you have it pretty bad seeing as your brother wanted out and your sister has gone into hiding.....let your sister know how you feel...prolly the same as she does, and come up with a plan together.
2007-07-26 11:44:08 · answer #3 · answered by cm_val920 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are going through a really hard time. The best news is that it can only get better. Please don't do anything crazy. Take this time taking care of yourself, get some extra rest, take some long baths, get outside and just do your best to relax. If there is something positive you can do to help the situation, do it. If there is nothing you can do, then let it go. The world doesn't need to be on your shoulders even when it seems like it's falling apart. It will get better, just keep telling yourself that and getting ready for happier times for when they do come.
2007-07-26 11:41:32 · answer #4 · answered by wellbeing 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its great that at least you know that you asking for advise which is the first step.You might think that things are terrible at the moment but things will get better believe me.We all go through bad patches and think that things won't improve.Be there for your sister and comfort her as she needs you.This will bring some comfort to you also.Hang in there please
2007-07-26 11:54:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is sad how old is Ur brother all u need is some time away from Ur family or something i hope Ur brother will come back soon and every thing will be a right
2007-07-26 14:11:43 · answer #6 · answered by missbossyeve 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really need to seek help. Maybe a friend, councler, something like that. Seek Help immediatly. This feeling is nothing to joke around about.
2007-07-26 11:41:23 · answer #7 · answered by Tina S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't know what to do, why would you choose something "bad"?
Find a trusted adult and speak to them about what's concerning you...you need more help right now than online strangers can provide.
Good luck!
2007-07-26 11:41:06 · answer #8 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This will all be okay in awhile. Relax and go for a walk. Talk to a doctor or professional if you still feel so frustrated.
2007-07-26 11:41:56 · answer #9 · answered by greenfrogs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a trusted adult and speak to them immediately to prevent doing something bad.
2007-07-26 12:02:03 · answer #10 · answered by Blaze 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋