Do I stand a chance with her???

Question

There is 1 girl i fallen in love.. I alway feel that it is one sided.. I promised and said that i will look after and take care of her for lifetime. She give me a smile.. I didn't really date her out and don't know when i start to like her. Whenever I feel like dating her.. i shy alway.. this don't happen when another girls. sometime girls do date me out. She just give me a special feeling and it is 1 month. I suppose I really fallen in love.

Now my ex colleague who is devoted to someone for 5 yr who was divorced and even got a gf. She still keep her fate. I had promised her best friend to help her break the barrier. My ex colleague is also one of my good friend. In order to help her, I know i have to woo her... She had been single for 5 yr rejecting so many suiters and she will rather pretty too.

My heart always be with my crush.. I know. someone that really makes me fall in love. and think of her every second.

I admit somehow i am using my ex colleague to ... detail.

using my ex colleague to keep my crush outta my mind. She seem to be in my mind 24/7. I don't wanna be a turn off by texting her so often as i know this is a turn off for girls.

She don't seems to show that much interested for me.

However the night when i text her.. i may not contact her for a while.. she reply why.. I told her the trust and promise i will be back to watch her after everything is done. she reply with a smiley :).

The next day I give her a wake up call and then she initated a text that she really remember me.

What does she mean? Is she hidden her crush for me?
(Right now i m wooing my ex-colleague and it seem getting well..)
Am i wrong to do such "noble task"?

Answer 1

Muahahah you youngins and your romance lmao!!! Ether way buddy just so you know love isn't given to you, YOU GIVE IT TO YOURSELF! Its important that you understand this are else you'll just think your powerless to avoid it, or control it. Why you feel so much love for this girl goes so deep I couldn't even ventrue to guess. Nor do I have any idea why your with this person you call "ex-colleague" if not only because your not going to ballz up and talk to this girl that you let yourself feel so much for, confusing mess buddy. Lets just tell you this and you ether take it and run, or just keep making mistakes its your life. BUt ether way.... Romance is really only a small part of true love, it has many deminsions, many flavors, and lots and lots of deepth! Even deeper then o hunnie your the world, lol much deeper. Also friends can become incredible lovers, but lovers rarly ever become decent friends. Good Luck!