me and my boyfriend is already in 3 years relationship..
i love him very much..
i think of him everytime!!..
then he texted me that he is already bored on our relationship!!
it hurts al ot!!
for the past 3 years!! we have been together!!
then he will dump me through text!!
then he sent me another text saying he had already girlfriend and they are already 3 moths together!!
i hate him!!
but i still love him!!
it hurts!!
so what should i do?!!
should i tell my mom?!!
what must i do to forget him!!
2007-07-26 04:23:19 · 16 answers · asked by hunkypunky 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Accept it, and the fact that you are much better off without the loser that would treat you like that! Then avoid him at all costs, don't talk to him, and keep yourself busy. Hang out with your friends. Get some exercise. Join a club. Volunteer. Whatever you have to do. Then just give it some time. You'll get over the loser, be better off for it, and can find yourself a better boyfriend who will treat your right and is mature enough to last. Don't feel bad. This happens to almost everyone. Good luck!
2007-07-26 04:26:28 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. Taco 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow...you got hit pretty hard!!! It's like, someone just dump a bucket of ice cold water!. Here's something for you to be happy for, even though you are hurt. Obviously he wasn't man enough to tell you in person, therefore he chose the cowardly way to tell you he no longer wishes to be with you. He wasn't worth it. Three years, is a long time, but hey, it has saved you a lot of trouble in the future, in case you both went on with your relationship.
Why wold he text you instead of telling you face to face? He was worried that he'd hurt you more? Bullshit. So he has a new girlfriend now...most likely he already had a girlfriend before you knew it, while you were dating him, and he decided not to tell you, that is obvious.
Well, then. It is time for you to move on and find someone much better than him. Obviously you were too good for him. He wasn't good enough for you, neither did he deserved you. It will not be easy for you to get over your loss, and not quick either. The best way for you to cope with this, do something creative, something that keeps your mind busy from thinking so much of him. Take all his cards, pictures, anything that resembles him, and put them on a shoe box, or a bag, and hide that box some place where you cannot see it anymore, and move on.
Go out with your friends, begin meeting new men, go on dates, a ball game, a movie, you know the traditional dating routine. Try to avoid going to the places where you and him went to...this will prevent you from getting flashbacks, and might not let you enjoy your time with the person you are dating.
Through time you will heal, but you've to avoid seeing him, or staying in touch with him, it will not be safe nor will it be healthy for you. Let him be. You go on...hey you're free!!! Ever wanted to go out with someone cute you saw nearby?...Go find him. Enjoy your freedom, your independence. I know you love him and all...but really, it's over, and no matter what you say or do, it has been broken, and if you try to glue it back together, it will not work the same, so better for you to start a fresh new book.
I wish you the very best.
2007-07-26 04:38:05 · answer #2 · answered by ОГОНЬ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should just accept it for what it is and move on. The time you spent together obviously does not matter to him, so cut your losses and try and move forward.
It isn't easy, and there is no magical trick to forget him. All you can do is let time take it's course, eventually you will think of him less and less, until one day you'll realise you don't think about him at all.
2007-07-26 04:26:55 · answer #3 · answered by mad_hillbilly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
relationships are hard, and you need someone to talk to about all of the feelings that come with breakups.
Your Mom will have experience that will help you get through this!
You deserve someone who will not cheat on you and respects you enough to talk through your problems, face-to-face and not cowardly text message.
It's hard to realize it now, but you will move on and be stronger for going through this.
2007-07-26 04:37:45 · answer #4 · answered by MiMom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl, you should look at yourself as more precious than that. if a person treated you like that, he is definitely not worth you. get over him, text him a message saying that " life was so good to me fininding you, and here again life was better to me leaving you". More important is to believe in these words rather than sending them.
2007-07-26 04:28:10 · answer #5 · answered by Ed 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's an ass. if you want to make yourself feel better, confront him. tell him off. he's shallow and not worth it so just blow off steam and find yourself someone who is.
he's been cheating on you for 3 months now. dont let yourself get too upset over him. just make sure that if you've ever had sex with him to get youself tested, cause assholes like him are the ones that spread diseases.
2007-07-26 04:27:47 · answer #6 · answered by mickey g 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HE is not worth your time.
I understand that it is hard to turn off your feelings, but he is not worth it. He turned out to be a player.
Go out with your friends. Have some fun!
You can tell your mom, she wil be supportive I am sure!
2007-07-26 04:26:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
we girl need to stick together!! Find a sensitive and caring boyfriend!! But.. try to make the relationship as exciting as possible so history wont repeat itself.
2007-07-26 04:27:37 · answer #8 · answered by Zac Efron Lover!!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you should tell your mom! Then be sad for the relationship, angry at him, and move on.
Time heals all wounds...and time woulds all heels. You'll be OK.
2007-07-26 04:26:48 · answer #9 · answered by nicolemcg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to accept the fact that he two-timed you.
This guy is not worth you to love.
You will find another much better guy(:
Bless ya.
2007-07-26 06:03:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋