this really bugs me because i have a more than friend feelings for her-but have no world in hell how she feels about me. Maybe she has no ****** feeling for me that way at all >.< Im too shy to ask obviously. I live in the US and she lives in Asia- so we communicate through MSN Messenger and sometimes the phone.
2007-07-26 04:19:39 · 14 answers · asked by x_xgreendayrocksx_x 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
do you plan on moving to asia or is she going to move here? if not then try to find someone closer to home. it's easy to fall for someone when they are thousands of miles away.
2007-07-26 04:25:19 · answer #1 · answered by colormehappy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She could be just as confused as you right now!
Girls are often waiting for the boy to drop hints, and although it's unfair, it's how we do it.
You should tell her how you feel, and if you're to shy to do that, ask her if she has feelings for anyone (not you, particularly). But if she doesn't say you, don't get discouraged! She just might be too embarrased to say. You should probably ask her on the phone, than you can catch any hesitation when you ask. If there is, go for it.
Be brave, and good luck!
2007-07-26 11:28:56 · answer #2 · answered by Pink Nightmare 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is spending a lot of time talking to you through messenger and the phone then she digs you and for more than a friend. You need to let her know youre into her and then shell feel free to let you know how hot you get her. Good luck!
2007-07-26 11:29:03 · answer #3 · answered by timssterling 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you call her a girlfriend if she's in Asia and you've never been together to find out how you two really would be together? Long distance relationships are chancy at best especially ones in which the two of you have never met and everything is based on IMs and telephone conversations.
2007-07-26 11:24:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, just tell her u have gotten really close 2 her in the past blank months, & wanted 2 know if u have any feelings 4 u? I mean, if ur really THAT shy though, u can get a friend 2 ask her 4 u.
2007-07-26 11:23:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you can only ever by a friend unless you are a world traveler with gazillions of bucks to jet off to Asia on weekends.
It is not worth pursuing a romantic relationship with someone so far away.
2007-07-26 11:23:56 · answer #6 · answered by Wolfithius 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
All you can do is ask, there is no one on here that can tell you how she feels. Just do it casually. Just bring it up in conversation. Create a hypothetical situation and see what she thinks. Or do the classic "I have this friend who is really into this girl, but he doesn't know how to tell her, what do you think he should do?" move.
2007-07-26 11:25:42 · answer #7 · answered by chellybelly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. phone and instant message relationships are best kept as close friends
2. the best way to know what someone is thinking is to ask them.
3. the best way to get over being shy is to step up and say what is on your mind.
2007-07-26 11:25:17 · answer #8 · answered by Larry V 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask her! Make sure she knows that no matter what happens, you still want to be friends. Good luck!
2007-07-26 11:23:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dose she flirt? That is one thing girls will do. Dose she responde rite away? If so she likes u bk.
good luck
2007-07-26 11:23:13 · answer #10 · answered by podsrocks 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋