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Question

Me and my boyfriend have been done for two months and i thought i wanted him back during that time...but i realized recentally that i didn't want him and the real person i like is my friend zach...so him and i have been hanging out and talking more lately and I really do like him...but he's gone for a month at camp so he'll be back the 25th of august...now...i told him that I like him as i hugged him goodbye when we walked to his front door...now we are friends with benefits...((i don't do that too often but i like him...)) but i think we'd be a cute couple and so does everyone else...but he hasn't told me if he liked me back or not...so by the time he gets back I'll be single for 3 months...should i go for it??? be honest.

Answer 1

Go for it. What do you have to lose? If you lose your friendship over something like this, then it wasnt a good friendship to begin with. I have had many instances where I hooked up with friends only to realize that we were better off just as friends...and guess what, we still are!

Go with your gut girl, if you feel like you want to be with him exclusively...tell him! The worst that can happen is he will say he feels differently, and then he's a scumbag for hooking up with you in the first place and you are better off without him.

There are plenty of fish in the sea dear.

Answer 2

I am basically going through the same thing. Everyone keeps telling me that I need to let him go only because he could want to stay your sex partner and not become anything more. But inside I felt like I wanted to take that chance to see if he'd want to be with me or not. But he still hasn't made me his girl and it's been 4 months. Something is telling me right now to leave him alone so I probably will. But I say do you want to make my mistake or find someone who will make you their girl and at the same time like you as much as you like him. You and this guy sound like you both could be that perfect couple so I wouldn't say don't take a chance because I did and you wouldn't always want to be saying what if. 3 months isn't really a long time in 3 months you probably wouldn't be able to fall in love with another guy anyway so I say see what happens you may be happy of the out come or just sad but it's a risk to take. I wish you luck with him I believe a good outcome will probably happen... GOOD LUCK

Answer 3

Camp?? Single for 3 months?? How old are you? No more than 15 I bet!! A cute couple sounds like you're ready for the engagement ring and wedding bells instead of the ring of the school bell. Get real!! It's puppy love and you're wayyyy tooo serious sounding for one so young. And also "go for it"??? What do you mean? Go for trying to get him to be your guy for the beginning of the school year? That's about as far as you can see ahead of you right now, since it's a known fact kids change boy/girl friends just as soon as the new crush comes along anyway.

Answer 4

Now you have a whole month to really think about it, and if you still have feelings for Zach, go for it! Also, a whole month to relax, get in shape, cut your hair, start a new hobby or whatever will make you happier and even more attractive to Zach. However, please don't do the f w/ benefits thing with him. You'll get hurt. He should not have the cake and eat it too...

Answer 5

well... to be honest. i wouldn't want to wait around for something like that. and he is away to camp, so you dont really know whats going on over there. seeing that you might be friends with benefits, and he really didn't tell you how he felt i wouldn't wait for him. you still have more summer to live it up with the single life!! See how you feel about him when he comes back, but for now, dont wait, see what else is out there too offer. he might not have wanted to tell you how he felt because he didn't want to start anything for while he was away. He might not have wanted to start dating you because it was last minute when you told him how you felt. I would wait too see what else is out there, when he comes back, if you still like him see if he has any feelings toward you. you never know, you might find someone else when he was away.
good luck <33

Answer 6

I had to wait a year before my boyfriend asked me out. We were friends and would go out and do everything together.And I wanted to be more then friends with him. When he had other girlfriends that he dated in that year he was with me more then them. But are friendship grow so much that we found out that dating each other would work out. We just started dating about two weeks ago. Right now he is gone a way but will be coming back and I write letters to him everyday. Maybe you should write to him. Tell him that you like your friendship with him but you want to be more then friends with him. Dont hide your feelings. I know you told him you like him but sometimes guys want you to tell them how much you do care and like them. Good Luck

Answer 7

you should carefully creep into the subject during conversation, before asking him. If he is with you and he likes you and you like him then go for it. It's better to get these things off your chest and see what happens. You'll live to regret it otherwise.

Answer 8

have fun this next month, and when he gets back see how things are. If it ends up working out that's awesome.

Answer 9

Every morning the SUN says
"wake up your day says"
Sky says
"Aim my height"
wind says
"refresh like me"
so keep your heart high
so keep your lips smile

Answer 10

well what he doesnt know wont hurt him, right?
soo i think u should atleast test the waters with other guys and get back to him when he come backs.