There is this guy that i really like but my parents are really strict and dont let me hang out with guys a lot. We text eachother all the time and now he wants sneak out at night and do some stuff in his car..... Should i go?
2007-07-26 04:01:54 · 33 answers · asked by ~LiiViiN iiT Up~ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i forgot...im 16 and he is 17
2007-07-26 04:08:14 · update #1
Hell yes! LIVE LIFE WHILE YOUR YOUNG!!!! GO!!!! If they dont support you o well! Its not your fault or choice who you fall in love with! It was MEANT TO BE this way!!!!! Good luck!
2007-07-26 04:06:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yeah you should go, and dont practice safe sex, and get a tattoo, maybe even some underage drinking. Matter of fact find out if he has any hot friends and ask them to come along for a party in your pants!
With all sarcasm now aside, your parents are strict because when you turn 18 beleive it or not they can look back and say we did the best we could. She is an adult now and can go out into the world. I am sure your parents love you very much and should you decide to go out one night, it only takes one night to make a mistake that will last the rest of your life.
2007-07-26 04:10:57 · answer #2 · answered by Cap'n Mad Jack Cheddar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi and Good morning...To tell you honestly...'no' and why I say this is, you don't want to lose your parents respect or faith that they have in you as their daughter. I believe that the worse thing that a child can lose is the respect from their parent/parents. Now I don't know your parents, but I'm a parent myself to three children. Two boys and one girl. Now I have taught them good morals and ethics and it's their responsibility to abide by them. Also I have taught them the meaning of respect and the significance of being truthful and honest. If you sneak out of your parents home and you are eventually caught, then you are destroying a truthful/honest relationship with your parents for one night of fun.Do you want to jeopardize that type of relationship? My suggestion is, ask your parents if you could invite him over to meet them. If he passes inspection...lol. then your parents can possibly let you 'hang out' with this guy. If you sneak out and be with him and they find out, then you can bet they will never let you see him again. Do it the right way, then you won't lose their respect or faith in you and you can do more in the outcome since you were honest with them. Always remember, there is always a reason for everything that happens. Be patient and good comes to those who wait. Good luck and have a wonderful day!
2007-07-26 04:21:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u still live w/parents and have to go by their rules then u need to concentrate on school, not boys! parents are strict 4 a good reason, u could end up pregnant or catch a disease, it's really not worth it, just wait till u get to be at least 17. i think 17 is a good age, definitly not any younger than that.
2007-07-26 04:07:26 · answer #4 · answered by Jasm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I mean the right thing to do would be to just tell your parents. They only want to make sure that you are not having sex and getting pregnant really. but, you want to disobey the rules and take a chance, then go ahead. but I'm pretty sure with strict parents, that after they find out that you sneak out and all that, they are going to put you on punishment..
2007-07-26 04:06:11 · answer #5 · answered by Simorah Serenity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No.
If the guy is asking you to sneak out and "do stuff" in his car, he does not have your best interests at heart. He only wants to take advantage of you sexually, and you will not hear from again once he has had a chance to get with you.
If you are really interested in a guy, and he is truly interested in YOU, not your sexuality or willingness to be sexual, invite him to dinner with your parents and ask your parents if you can just sit on the porch and talk.
2007-07-26 04:06:05 · answer #6 · answered by marianne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is the reason your parents are so strict. This guy is a slimeball! He wants you to betray your parent's trust by sneaking out and "do some stuff" in his car (that's a code word for sex).
Don't do it!!!!!! And stop texting him too! Stay away from him.
Your parents are looking out for you, and trying to keep you from making serious mistakes and possibly getting hurt (or pregnant!). Trust your parents, not this guy!
2007-07-26 04:07:42 · answer #7 · answered by Frinn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants to do some stuff in his car??? Your parents are right, you are too young to be dating guys if you are actually thinking of sneaking out to go "get some" in his car. If he was a genuine guy, he would say, "I'll meet you at the movies with your friends so we can be together." Not, "come to my car so I can feel you up."
2007-07-26 04:05:40 · answer #8 · answered by mkb2000bkm 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
how old are you? sounds like you're pretty young and if that's the case is sneaking out with a guy that you "like" to do some "stuff " in his car worth getting grounded and upsetting your parents? I am sure they are just trying to protect you and not ruin your life by not letting you go out with random guys.
2007-07-26 04:05:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he was any kind of gentleman, he would meet your parents, and let them get to know him. Do some stuff in his car? You're a fool if you let him talk you into sex, because that's exactly what he wants from you, nothing more.
2007-07-26 04:07:30 · answer #10 · answered by Chatelaine 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i rly dont think u should go...u should try and ask ur parents if u can actually go with him...but dont sneak out. u probably have a good relationship with ur parents and u wouldnt want to ruin it...by sneaking out. dont do it. think about ur parents...wat if u were them..would u want ur daughter to be sneaking out without u knowing that she is. think about the relationship that u have with ur parents. ur parents r stict with u for a reason..not just b/c they want to be mean
2007-07-26 04:04:58 · answer #11 · answered by liuvurlife13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋