To make a long story short...Last year while me and my girlfriend stayed together I cheated on her but she didnt find until after I found out she cheated on me..well we broke up in april but we were still talking like we were still 2gether but like 3weeks ago I made up in my mind that I couldnt be the other woman anymore cause she is still with someone at first she thought I was just talking but now she see that im moving on so last friday she so called left that girl house to come see me but I treating her like a friend and I guess she didnt like that so this when the begging started she told me she couldnt live without me and she needs me and that its nothing out here for her...so I ignored it until 2days ago she texted my bestfriend who she doesnt like and asked her to get us back 2gether..lately she said she be over that girl house but she answers the phone and talk to me normal no whispering or nothing and tells me she loves me. do you believe she talks to someone?
2007-07-26 03:40:29 · 12 answers · asked by Chaz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wow, that is like one really LONG run on sentence.
My eyes hurt.
2007-07-26 03:43:38 · answer #1 · answered by getusedtoit 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Chaz, my best advice would be to trust your instincts. If it feels right to return and try to reconcile this relationship then attempt to do so in a mature manner. I would also suggest a good heart to heart conversation where you both let the other know 100% of the truth, what happened that made you each cheat and what your true feelings are for one and other. But here remember that both parties have to be 100% honest and open minded when talking about things as there may be things said that you might not like to hear. Good luck in making your decision, and listen to your head and not your heart.
2007-07-26 03:46:42 · answer #2 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't give the relationship much of a chance because you both cheated. I believe she's got someone who is her lover and you should cut off all communications with her and move on. If she does make contact, tell her that it's time you both moved on with your lives, then block her out. There has been a lot of drama in the relationship, and I suggest you end it.
2007-07-26 03:46:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm precisely like this. Bisexual, blended race, by no skill been w/ yet another women individuals, and discover white women individuals very captivating....and latinas. yet, being in a courting would not have something to do with race. One race would not act in a single specific way. It relies upon on the different person's character and behaviour.
2016-11-10 08:31:41 · answer #4 · answered by kujala 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's time to give men a try. You're too old to still be acting out, rebelling and doing the lesbian thing to piss mommy and daddy off, it's time to grow up now.
2007-07-26 03:44:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Women are for men. Men are for women. It's a puzzle. Put the correct pieces together.
2007-07-26 03:45:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
doesn't sound like you two have any kind of solid foundation. there are many other lesbian fish in the sea- maybe some that you guys won't want to cheat on...
2007-07-26 03:45:20 · answer #7 · answered by parasenorita 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wish i could give you more advice, but im not excactly knowledgable when it comes to same-sex relationships.
...is there a difference between same-sex and opposite sex relationships?
2007-07-26 03:46:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely. Who needs men anyway?
2007-07-26 03:42:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think she misses you...and realizes that she should have kept you...give it some space hon.
2007-07-26 03:45:17 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋