Well, all the guys i know go from girl to girl to girl with no problems, yet im unable to get just one, been single for 4 years now and i think thats long enough, how come everyone around me is so lucky & get to pick & choose & i cant?.
you may think this is crazy but one of those card readers told me that there was some "angel" or "divine power" holding me back when it come to the ladies...what you think
2007-07-26 01:31:11 · 23 answers · asked by junjun012004 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
i dont think im that ugly or bad desser, but it seens that maybe im too nice, i think girls are more into the "macho " gansta type, maybe i have to pull my pants down,put a rag on my head & buy a blunt.
2007-07-26 01:42:37 · update #1
Maybe the card readers are right. It probably is your fate. But I believe if there's somebody for you out there, it'll happen. You just have to be patient. In the meantime, try to add more productive hobbies in your resume, so to speak. So that the chances of meeting the girl of your dreams would be high.
2007-07-26 01:37:30 · answer #1 · answered by Kim B 2 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Card readers. Take that out of your mind. They are not real.
Are you cursed? No. Not everyone is meant to go from girl to girl to girl. There are certain girls or guys that have only dated one if more two people in the lives. You are one of those. When your girl comes you will cherish her because she has all the values or qualities you'd appreciate in a woman. You think they are lucky? I think you are the lucky one. We are living in a dangerous world these days, with so many sexually transmitted diseases especially the deadly one HIV you cannot afford to move from partner to partner or else you will sign your death sentence. You are on the safe side compared to them.
For you who has dated for 4 years might think it's long but believe me it's not that long. It's of concentrating on finding a girl take that time to enjoy yourself, to learn more about you. Look around at how your friends are treating their girlfriends and see if it is right if not how would you change it if it was your relationship to make it better. Find out how you can act to make your future relationship be stronger, and so much more.
It has nothing to do with your looks or the way you dress. Girls that go for the gangsta type of guys are usually never really happy in the long run. You probably are a nice guy, nothing wrong with that. You will find a nice girl and she will make you happy. Just be patient my dear.
2007-07-27 02:34:14 · answer #2 · answered by sweetdivine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the right girl hasn't come on the scene as yet. Have you prayed about this? The second most important decision you will make in your life is whom you shall marry. The first being a follower of Christ. If you have done the latter, He will assist you with the former and you will find a mate. I will appreciate an invitation to the wedding. God Bless.
PS No, you are not cursed, there are some of us who believe you have been truly blessed.
2007-07-26 08:39:36 · answer #3 · answered by loufedalis 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YES!
This happened to me.
I am a Christian.
I finally learned the problem and became
angry at the evil one, yet in a good way!
I was single for 6 years (age 24-30 - agonizing).
I have been a Christian since age 7
and by the age of 27, finally began to learn
to do spiritual warfare effectively.
The problem was pinpointed (long story) and
I began to pray powerfully with my
mother praying with me too.
Within three days of this effective warfare,
my long lost love who was my soulmate
was restored to me (after 6 years
of separation)!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
One of the most valuable lessons
was to not be "religious" or "formal" in praying,
but to learn how to be sincere -
I thought I was sincere but had to
learn to be - then more was revealed
through various ways as the years
rolled by!
Note: curses are not always the reason,
yet it is a factor more often than many think!
"The effective prayer of a righteous man/woman
avails much!"
The card reader may have given you a
helpful tip or hint, yet be careful how the evil is cleansed -
an evil spirit can tell another evil spirit to go away for
a while to prove their power and you may have success,
but then you can have more problems after that - making "deals" with the evil one will bring pain!
The Holy Spirit can both cleanse and fill you so that
evil will not return and multiply!
God loves you and wants to bless you!
Call of the name of Jesus! It worked for me!
I learned some excellent lessons.
Also, people told me all I need is God,
but that is not correct - it's not Biblically correct.
God says he will supply our needs according
to our faith!
Take care!
2007-07-26 09:21:09 · answer #4 · answered by Nickel-for-your-thoughts 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to stay away from the card readers that is the devils work and if you believe in what they say then you give it power over you and then it could be true in that sense but if you ignore it and keep away and start thinking the opposite then things will start to turn around. the power of positive thoughts are nothing to be reckoned with as the power of negativity.
2007-07-26 08:41:48 · answer #5 · answered by panda 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Renounce any association with that card reader and repent to the Lord for listening to the evil advice given. The curse was placed upon you by the card reader and not God or God's angel. The curse came upon you by a fallen angel of Satan himself who released an evil spirit within you that repels girls.
You young people think witchcraft, sorcery, divination, tarot cards, horoscopes, seances(necromancy) are silly fun, but God says do not have anything to do with these people and do not indulge in their practices. You sin against God. You invite evil into your life. Then these evil spirits think they have a right to possess your body and influence your mind.
2007-07-26 08:41:26 · answer #6 · answered by Jeancommunicates 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You obviously believe you are. Have you been looking for love in all the wrong places or perhaps have more self respect than the ungodly that jumps around and shares their sin with everyone they can.
You can find a good women at church and a whole lot more too.
God Bless!
2007-07-26 08:39:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
luck has nothing to do with it. you're not attractive, and you're poor. That's what women want, so go work on it.
No that's not it at all, i'm not gangsta, i'm not any of those things. I"m ambitious, i'm funny, and not afraid to talk to women and ask them on dates or to just go hang out and see what happens. I've had a lot of success with women and haven't had to conform to any specific social rules. Also, the women i dated were in fact all very attractive save for a few whom i found other qualities in. Not just sexual ones either, intellectual. To a certain extent yes you can 'just be yourself' and women will come, but lets be realistic here. If 'yourself' is something that no woman would want then you have to rethink your strategy. Think about the type of woman you want, think of what her beliefs would be, what her likes and dislikes would be. Then become her for a moment and look at yourself. Is that something up your alley? If not, change.
2007-07-26 08:34:53 · answer #8 · answered by Agnostic Front 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
The card readers are useless,or in this case maybe harmful,they have you thinking something that is not true.
You need a little confidence in yourself,F.Y.I.A GOING THROUGH GIRL AFTER GIRL IS NOT A GOOD THING.
2007-07-26 08:38:41 · answer #9 · answered by gwhiz1052 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No you are not cursed. You prob. don't have a clue how to talk to or treat women, most men don't naturally but have to learn.
Buy some books about women, I mean this. When I learned how men think I was shocked! I'd ask my husband and say, 'You mean you really think this way?" He say, "yes". So learn about women and they will come.
You may also talk to a women friend and ask her honest opinion why you aren't getting dates. You may be doing something you are aware of.
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2007-07-26 08:36:42 · answer #10 · answered by Jeanmarie 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋